
Have you ever checked your big kid’s location, reread a text, or offered one more piece of advice because you were hoping it would finally help you relax? I’ve been noticing this in my own life lately, and it made me curious about what’s really underneath all that worry. In this episode, I’m exploring why anxiety can feel so hard to put down during the parenting teens and empty nest years, and why constantly seeking reassurance rarely gives us the certainty we’re looking for. I’ll help you see the connection between worrying, trying to influence your child’s choices, and the belief that being a good mom means preventing things from going wrong. You’ll leave with a different way to think about letting go: not caring less, but trusting yourself more, knowing what belongs to you, and allowing your big kid’s life to belong to them. 💡 Interested in learning more about how to create peace, confidence and connection as you raise and launch your teen? Join me for my next free masterclass: https://www.thesmalljar.com/class. 💪 Curious about coaching? Check out our Mom 2.0 coaching programs (both group and 1:1): www.thesmalljar.com/Mom-2-0. ❓ Have questions or want to share your feedback? I'd love to hear from you! You can email me at jennifer@thesmalljar.com. This empowering podcast offers life coaching for moms and parenting support for midlife mothers raising teens as they approach the empty nest, teaching them how to let go of control, stop overthinking, and shift their mindset, while also helping them set boundaries, improve communication, reduce anxiety, release mom guilt, and find purpose in the evolving journey of parenting teens and motherhood.
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Why the Right Boundary Can Still Feel So Wrong When Parenting Teens and Adult Kids | Ep. 289

Mindset Traps of Parenting Teens and the Empty Nest—Trap #12: The Approval Trap—Why Your Big Kid’s Disapproval Makes You Doubt Yourself | Ep. 287

“Nothing Matters to My Kid”—Thoughts Moms Parenting Teens Are Ashamed They Think | Ep. 286

Letting Go of the Invisible Contracts that Make Parenting Teens and Adult Kids so Hard | Ep. 285
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