Who Really Leads? | Unlearning Patriarchy, Submission & What Leadership Actually Means

Softly Unfiltered is a podcast exploring Black womanhood, identity, relationships, healing, self-worth, friendship, career, and the unspoken experiences of modern Black women.Who gets called a leader, who is actually doing the leading, and how many of our beliefs about men, women, submission, and power did we inherit without ever questioning them?This week Blake and Ashlyn use the dynamics of the lion and lioness as a jumping off point to unpack the narratives we are taught about leadership. They get into why providing alone does not make someone a leader, how women can be taught to shrink themselves in the name of submission, why titles and appearances can be mistaken for competence, and what healthy leadership actually looks like.We got into:• Why men being natural leaders is a social agreement, not an unquestionable fact• The male loneliness conversation and why women are increasingly dating for character• Why a title, money, or status does not automatically make someone a good leader• The difference between leadership, dominance, respect, and control• Why some women protect a man’s image by biting their tongue and making themselves smaller• Today’s Unfiltered Moment featuring testimonies from men who admitted marrying women they were not in love with• How beauty, submission, convenience, and ego can become part of the decision to marryToday’s Soft Landing: Leadership is not a title you inherit. It is a responsibility you earn. The people worth following do not need to make you feel smaller to prove that they are powerful. Real leadership feels like wisdom, care, consistency, and safety.What is one belief about leadership, love, or womanhood that you have had to unlearn? 📩 Email us: Softlyunfiltered@gmail.com📱 Follow us on all platforms: @softlyunfilteredpod⭐ Leave us a rating on Apple Podcasts & Spotify!