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by Cara Alwill
Welcome to Cara Says It All! Formerly known as Style Your Mind, this podcast has empowered millions worldwide with over 11 million downloads and features in Forbes and Oprah. I'm Cara Alwill, your host and go-to for unfiltered conversations on life, love, creativity, and everything that shapes us. I'm here to remind you that the power to create your own story starts now—boldly, unapologetically, and without limits. Whether you're here for inspiration, a laugh, or a perspective shift, buckle up because we're going deep and keeping it real. Welcome to the conversation!
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- 3 days ago29 min
Done Being Good: Stop Abandoning Yourself & Start Living with Summer Lindman
What happens when you do everything right, become everything you were supposed to be, and realize you're absolutely miserable? You have the career. The title. The apartment. The approval. You've made everyone proud. Everyone except yourself. In today's episode of Style Your Mind, I'm sitting down with Pink Inkn Press author Summer Lindman to talk about the very expensive price of being a "good girl" — and what happens when you finally decide you're done paying it. Before thirty, Summer had climbed her way to the top of the corporate ladder, becoming CEO of a tech startup. On paper, she had it all. But behind the scenes she was exhausted, disconnected from herself, and beginning to question the entire life she'd worked so hard to build. But here's where her story gets really interesting: Before she was a CEO, she was an artist. A singer. A wildly creative little girl who dreamed of performing opera. Somewhere along the way, she traded that girl for a version of herself the world would approve of. Sound familiar? Summer's powerful new memoir, I'm Done Being Good, published by my company, Pink Ink Press, is about unraveling the expectations we've inherited, breaking our addiction to outside approval, and finding our way back to the women we were before the world told us who to be. In this juicy, honest conversation, we're getting into: Why achieving everything you thought you wanted can leave you feeling completely empty. The connection between good girl conditioning, people-pleasing, perfectionism, and burnout. How one professor's criticism changed the trajectory of Summer's creative life. Why learning to trust yourself starts with the smallest, seemingly insignificant decisions. The terrifying (and liberating) experience of disappointing people who expect you to stay the same. Why being a good person and being a good girl are two VERY different things. What happens when you stop treating creativity like something that has to be impressive, productive, or profitable. How writing her memoir helped Summer reclaim her story — even when it meant having uncomfortable conversations with the people closest to her. We also talk about our own experiences walking away from impressive careers, the generational pressure to play it safe, and why sometimes the bravest thing you can do is admit that the life you've built isn't the life you actually want. Because you can be successful, admired, accomplished, and still be abandoning yourself. And maybe the next chapter of your life isn't about becoming someone new. Maybe it's about remembering who the hell you were before you learned to be good. ABOUT SUMMER: Summer Lindman is the author of I'm Done Being Good, a raw, deeply personal memoir and creative guide about unlearning perfectionism, reclaiming your inner artist, and finding the courage to build a life that actually feels like yours. Get your copy of I'm Done Being Good, available now from Pink Ink Press. Connect with Summer: Instagram: @summerlindmancreates Substack: Summer Lindman Website: summerlindman.com If this episode resonates, share it with a woman who's ready to stop living for everyone else's approval and start living for herself.
- Sep 28, 202629 min
CHAOS REPELS WEALTH: How to Slow Down, Regulate Your Nervous System + Create a Richer Life with Shania Khan
What if the secret to creating a richer life isn't doing more—but becoming unavailable for chaos? Today I'm joined by Shania Khan, creator of Soft 60, for a conversation about nervous system regulation, ambition, wealth, luxury, personal style, and what happens when women finally stop treating stress like a prerequisite for success. Shania and I both spent years in New York City, where moving fast, working harder, and constantly pushing felt completely normal. But after leaving the city—and learning how to slow down—we both began questioning the same thing: what if urgency isn't actually making us more successful? As Shania says in this episode: chaos repels wealth. We talk about why more effort doesn't always equal more money, the hidden cost of living in a constant state of urgency, and why creating space in your life can actually create space for more wealth, creativity, opportunities, and joy. We also get into the pressure women feel to do everything, why Shania believes a beautiful life is built through subtraction rather than addition, decision fatigue, clearing out your closet, dressing for the woman you are today, and why comfort and luxury are absolutely allowed to coexist. And we have a fascinating conversation about social media, authenticity, and the difference between sharing your truth with perspective…and turning your platform into a live feed of your most painful moments. In this episode, we talk about: • Why Shania believes chaos repels wealth • Breaking the addiction to hustle, urgency, and overworking • Why working harder doesn't necessarily mean earning more • Nervous system regulation as a daily practice • How slowing down can actually support ambition • Why creativity needs space and stillness • Building a beautiful life through subtraction • Decluttering your home, wardrobe, schedule, and relationships • Decision fatigue and why your closet might be stressing you out • Personal style, comfort, natural fabrics, and feeling luxurious in your clothes • The difference between authenticity and trauma dumping online • Why people want to see possibility, hope, and women winning • Shania's Soft 60 practice and learning to create calm one day at a time This conversation is your permission slip to stop white-knuckling your way toward the life you want. You do not have to destroy yourself to become successful. You do not have to live in urgency to be ambitious. And you certainly don't have to earn your wealth through exhaustion. Sometimes the richest thing you can do is slow the fuck down. Connect with Shania on social media @IamShaniaKhan and learn more about Soft 60 through the link in her profile.
- Sep 11, 202611 min
SHE'S BACK: Welcome to the New Era of Style Your Mind
Well, well, well. Look who's back. After nearly a decade, millions of downloads, one rebrand, and a little time away, Style Your Mind is officially back. In this episode, I'm sharing why I changed the name of the podcast in the first place, why that chapter made perfect sense for the woman I was then, and why I've found myself craving the bigger conversations that made me fall in love with podcasting in the first place. We're talking ambition, business, money, creativity, reinvention, and building a big life. And perhaps most importantly, what it looks like to want more from a place of peace, rather than believing something has to be wrong with the life you already have. Life has a lot of seasons. And this one feels very different. I know who I am. I know what I want to talk about. And I have so much more to say. Welcome back to Style Your Mind.
- Aug 14, 202620 min
How to Not Edit Yourself Out of Your Own Life
Today I'm talking about what it looks like to honor the parts of yourself that make you, YOU, even when life is changing rapidly. Relationships, kids, moves, career changes—they can all shift us so deeply that we can lose ourselves if we aren't careful. Join me from the living room in my historic Southern home for an intimate and honest conversation about how to honor the woman you've always been and make room for the woman you're becoming. Remember this: you're allowed to change your mind. You're allowed to want different things than the people you love. You're allowed to have something that's just yours. And you're allowed to keep becoming without leaving yourself behind. PS - If you're in New York on August 20th, I'm hosting an intimate champagne dinner for six women. Bring me your book idea. Your manuscript. Your Substack. Your author brand. Your publishing questions. The creative business you're trying to build. The thing you can't seem to figure out on your own. You'll get my eyes on it. We'll talk about what's working, what isn't, what I see for you, and what I think your next move should be. I know some of my biggest shifts have happened that way. Over a fabulous drink at a fabulous table with fabulous women. Sometimes you just need the right environment to help you think bigger. I'd love to create that for you. Grab your ticket here: https://caraalwill.thrivecart.com/champagne-with-cara-new-york-city/
- Aug 4, 20269 min
Your Hot Pink Permission Slip to Publish Anyway: How to Stop Overthinking and Trust Your Words
What if the sentence that changes your life is the one you almost didn't publish? In this episode, I'm sharing the story of how a single sentence from an old blog post unexpectedly ended up on a billboard in Europe, and why it completely changed the way I think about creativity, publishing, and trusting your work. If you've been sitting on an essay, a book idea, a Substack post, or even a single paragraph because you're waiting for it to be better, this episode is your reminder that you don't get to decide which piece of your work will resonate with someone else. Your job isn't to predict the outcome. It's to keep showing up. By the end of this episode, I hope you'll give yourself permission to stop overthinking, start publishing, and remember that one honest sentence has the power to change everything. 💖 Your homework: Before you go to bed tonight, write one sentence that feels true for you. Let it be unedited, imperfect. And don't delete it! Sit with it and see where it leads you. You have no idea what it might become. Want to write with me? ✨ <span style= "font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; color: #000000; background-color: transparent; font-w
- Jul 10, 20261h 2m
On Reinventing My Life in My 40s, Becoming a Stepmom, and Building a Second Act — with Aaron Leatherbarrow
Today on the show, I'm joined by my fiancé, Aaron Leatherbarrow, for one of the most honest conversations we've ever had. We talk about what it's been like to reinvent my life in my 40s—from leaving New York and becoming a stepmom to navigating a blended family, building a creative life together, and redefining what a healthy relationship looks like. We also get into homesickness, identity shifts, separate beds, afternoon sex, and why the best relationships leave room for both people to keep becoming who they are. 🖤 If this conversation resonated with you, you can find more of my writing on Substack 🖤 Want more from Aaron? Check out his new private audio drops
- Apr 16, 202638 min
Writing About Your Exes (And Living to Tell the Story) with E.M. Gallagher
Today's episode is for anyone who's ever fallen in love, ignored a red flag, or romanticized someone who absolutely did not deserve it. I'm joined by writer and author E.M. Gallagher, whose memoir Ugh. Anyway… dives into love, heartbreak, ambition, and the beautifully questionable decisions that come with dating in New York City. We published this book through my imprint, Pink Ink Press, and it's already building a cult following. In this conversation, we get into: What it really takes to write about your exes (and actually publish it) The line between love and delusion Writing through heartbreak vs. writing after it Navigating real people on the page How New York shapes the way we love (for better or worse) What happens when you finally tell the truth about your life This one is honest, funny, a little chaotic...and very real. If you've ever thought, "I could write a book about my exes"… this might be your sign. Get the Book Ugh. Anyway… by E.M. Gallagher — available now on Amazon + Barnes & Noble Connect with E.M. Instagram: @emgwritingthings Substack: emgallagher.substack.com Connect with Me Instagram: @thechampagnediet Website: https://www.carasaysitall.com/
- Mar 31, 20261h 1m
Why Writing Your Book is Your Ultimate Power Move in 2026
In this episode, I'm joined by my good friend Amanda Frances for a real, unfiltered conversation about what it actually looks like to become an author today—and why self-publishing is no longer the "alternative"… it's the power move. Between the two of us, we've sold hundreds of thousands of books, built global audiences, and turned our writing into real businesses. And at one point, we both had the same realization: We don't need permission. In this episode, we're pulling back the curtain on the publishing industry, breaking down the myths, and showing you what's actually possible when you decide to do it your way. If you've been thinking about writing a book, sitting on an idea, or waiting to be chosen...this is your sign. In this episode, we talk about: The biggest myths about traditional publishing What book deals really look like behind the scenes Why self-publishing gives you more control, ownership, and income How to turn your book into a long-term asset (not just a one-time project) The identity shift required to become a visible, paid author What to do if you want to start writing your book now This episode is for you if: You have a book idea you haven't acted on You've been waiting for a publisher, agent, or "right time" You want to build a brand, business, or platform through your writing You're ready to stop playing small and actually put your work into the world Ready to become a self-published author? If this episode spoke to you, Self-Published was created for exactly this moment. Inside, you'll learn how to write, publish, and sell your book—on your terms. https://amandafrances.com/self-published/
About Cara Says It All
Welcome to Cara Says It All! Formerly known as Style Your Mind, this podcast has empowered millions worldwide with over 11 million downloads and features in Forbes and Oprah. I'm Cara Alwill, your host and go-to for unfiltered conversations on life, love, creativity, and everything that shapes us. I'm here to remind you that the power to create your own story starts now—boldly, unapologetically, and without limits. Whether you're here for inspiration, a laugh, or a perspective shift, buckle up because we're going deep and keeping it real. Welcome to the conversation!
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