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by Susan Feldman and Phyllis Berger
We’re women who never stopped talking, questioning, debating — and occasionally challenging one another — about how to keep moving forward. We still love gathering, laughing, and talking things through, often with a glass of wine in hand, trying to make sense of what life has taught us so far… and what we’re still figuring out.Because the truth is, life doesn’t come with instructions — and the questions don’t stop just because you’ve lived a little.Which brings us to the title.So When Do I Take My Clothes Off? isn’t really about sex (though that may come up).It’s a metaphor for those moments when we quietly ask ourselves:When do I speak up?Let go?Start over?Try something new?Stop caring what everyone else thinks?Whether you’re navigating relationships, reinvention, loneliness, or simply wondering “Is this it… or is there more?” — you’re not alone. And if you need company, you can drop int
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- 1 weeks ago44 min
So When Do I… Open My Heart Again and Redefine Love? With Paulina Porizkova
This week, we're joined by supermodel, author, and actress Paulina Porizkova and her fiancé, Emmy-nominated television writer and producer Jeff Greenstein, for a heartfelt conversation about finding love later in life. Paulina opens up about the grief, uncertainty, and reinvention that followed some of the most difficult chapters of her life, while Jeff shares his own journey back to love. We'll talk about dating apps, vulnerability, aging, second chances, and why the butterflies we chase aren't always what we need. Most of all, we'll explore what happens when two people meet at a stage in life where they know who they are, what they want, and aren't afraid to choose each other.Whether you're looking for love, healing from loss, or simply wondering what's still possible in your next chapter, we hope this conversation leaves you feeling inspired, encouraged, and open to the unexpected.Don’t forget to follow for more:> Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/getinthegroove1/?hl=en & https://www.instagram.com/sowhendoi/> TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@getinthegroove1> YouTube: www.youtube.com/@InTheGroove1Hosts and Executive Producers - Susan Feldman and Phyllis BergerCo-Producer, Engineer, & Editor - Spencer GanusCo-Producer & Editor - Caroline McClellandSocial Media Manager - Skylar HarrisonMusic - Ben Berger Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
- 1 weeks ago55 min
So When Do I... Make My Home Reflect Who I Am Now? With Nate Berkus
This week, we sit down with iconic interior designer and author, Nate Berkus, for an honest conversation about what makes a home meaningful, why good design is so much more than trends, and how our spaces evolve as we do. From letting go of the things we no longer need to creating rooms that reflect who we truly are, Nate shares thoughtful insights on nostalgia, style, family, and the beauty of living well.Nate's latest book, Foundations: Timeless Design That Feels Personal, is available for purchase on Amazon here: https://www.amazon.com/Foundations-Timeless-Design-Feels-Personal/dp/1668026139/ref=sr_1_1?crid=23MWO6M6P171H&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.sH-0_5AQFOFThoR06VjhC9UlZztrdZB9ud62JJDSJD_GjHj071QN20LucGBJIEps.vxHpVqfJyyV9mfLQWLV0RlOKTaKmvmfgw6czeEGUa9w&dib_tag=se&keywords=foundation+nate+berkus&qid=1779727418&sprefix=foundation+nate+berku%2Caps%2C277&sr=8-1&tag=getinthegroov-1-bg-20Don’t forget to follow for more:> Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/getinthegroove1/?hl=en & https://www.instagram.com/sowhendoi/> TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@getinthegroove1> YouTube: www.youtube.com/@InTheGroove1Hosts and Executive Producers - Susan Feldman and Phyllis BergerCo-Producer, Engineer, & Editor - Spencer GanusCo-Producer & Editor - Caroline McClellandSocial Media Manager - Skylar HarrisonMusic - Ben Berger Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
- 2 weeks ago24 min
So When Do I… Put My Phone Down and Be Present?
This week, we’re talking about something we all swear everyone else is worse at… but secretly know we’re guilty of too: our relationship with our phones. From scrolling at dinner to checking texts mid-conversation, we unpack how technology is quietly shaping our relationships, attention, sleep, loneliness, and even intimacy.We talk about why being present might be the ultimate luxury, the small “baby steps” we can take to reconnect with the people right in front of us, and the simple habits that can help us feel more intentional in our relationships again. If you’ve ever felt distracted, dismissed, or wondered when we all forgot how to just be with each other, this one’s for you.Don’t forget to follow for more:> Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/getinthegroove1/?hl=en & https://www.instagram.com/sowhendoi/> TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@getinthegroove1> YouTube: www.youtube.com/@InTheGroove1Hosts and Executive Producers - Susan Feldman and Phyllis BergerCo-Producer, Engineer, & Editor - Spencer GanusCo-Producer & Editor - Caroline McClellandSocial Media Manager - Skylar HarrisonMusic - Ben Berger Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
- 3 weeks ago41 min
So When Do I… Stop Asking for Permission and Trust Myself? With The Devil Wears Prada 2 Producer, Wendy Finerman
We are so excited to be kicking off Season 2! In this episode, we sit down with legendary producer Wendy Finerman--the producer behind iconic films like Forrest Gump and The Devil Wears Prada--for a conversation about trusting your instincts, staying true to your perspective, and learning how to take up space in rooms not always built for women.Wendy shares stories from building her career in Hollywood, championing projects no one believed in at first, and navigating success in a male-dominated industry without losing her authenticity. In this episode, we talk about intuition, resilience, confidence, creative longevity, and what happens when you stop waiting for permission to trust yourself.Don’t forget to follow for more:> Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/getinthegroove1/?hl=en & https://www.instagram.com/sowhendoi/> TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@getinthegroove1> YouTube: www.youtube.com/@InTheGroove1Hosts and Executive Producers - Susan Feldman and Phyllis BergerCo-Producer, Engineer, & Editor - Spencer GanusCo-Producer & Editor - Caroline McClellandSocial Media Manager - Skylar HarrisonMusic - Ben Berger Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
- May 10, 202638 min
So What Would We Tell Our Younger Selves? With Our Daughters, Jenna and Jackie
Today we have an extra special episode as our season 1 finale... Instead of asking, “So when do I...?” we’re asking something a little deeper: What would we have told our younger selves?We’re talking about all the things we wish we knew sooner, like trusting our gut, worrying a little less, taking more risks, and not waiting for the “perfect” moment to start something new. And we brought in the most perfect guests to allow us to reflect: our daughters! Today, we are truly having a generational conversation with advice, reflection, and a little reality check because, honestly, there are a few moments when they’re teaching us. It turns out that we are, in fact, all still figuring it out at every age.This podcast is proudly sponsored by Caddis, eyewear designed for people who see life clearly at every age. Use code "SOWHENDOI20" at checkout to enjoy 20% until 5/16/26.Don’t forget to follow for more:> Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/getinthegroove1/?hl=en & https://www.instagram.com/sowhendoi/> TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@getinthegroove1> YouTube: www.youtube.com/@InTheGroove1Hosts and Executive Producers - Susan Feldman and Phyllis BergerCo-Producer, Engineer, & Editor - Spencer GanusCo-Producer & Editor - Caroline McClellandSocial Media Manager - Skylar HarrisonMusic - Ben Berger Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
- May 3, 202649 min
So When Do I… Start Paying Attention to My Brain Health? With Dr. Deborah Blacker
Alzheimer’s is something so many people are affected by, yet so few truly understand until it touches their own life. In today’s episode, we’re breaking it all down—what it is, how it progresses, and answering the questions so many people have but don’t always know how to ask. We also talk about the quiet anxiety that can come with getting older, including wondering what’s normal, what’s not, and when it’s time to actually get checked. It’s an honest, eye-opening conversation designed to bring clarity, ease uncertainty, and offer a deeper sense of understanding around a topic that impacts so many people.If you'd like to lean more about Alzheimer's, Dr. Blacker recommends you visit the trusted website, www.alz.org, or contact the Alzheimer's Association's 24/7 free hotline at (800) 272-3900.This podcast is proudly sponsored by Caddis, eyewear designed for people who see life clearly at every age. Use code "SOWHENDOI20" at checkout to enjoy 20% until 5/16/26.Don’t forget to follow for more:> Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/getinthegroove1/?hl=en & https://www.instagram.com/sowhendoi/> TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@getinthegroove1> YouTube: www.youtube.com/@InTheGroove1Hosts and Executive Producers - Susan Feldman and Phyllis BergerCo-Producer, Engineer, & Editor - Spencer GanusCo-Producer & Editor - Caroline McClellandSocial Media Manager - Skylar HarrisonMusic - Ben Berger Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
- Apr 29, 20267 min
Sound Bite 12: How a Little Act of Kindness Made Someone's Dream Come True
What if a simple conversation with a stranger could change someone’s life?In this mini episode, we share the story of a chance encounter on a flight: what started as someone just deciding to remove their AirPods to chat ended with a man fulfilling his life-long dream inspired by Frank Sinatra. It got us thinking about how often we default to distraction, and how small acts—starting a conversation, offering kindness, and being present—can have a lasting impact.This podcast is proudly sponsored by Caddis, eyewear designed for people who see life clearly at every age. Use code "SOWHENDOI20" at checkout to enjoy 20% until 5/16/26.Don’t forget to follow for more:> Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/getinthegroove1/?hl=en & https://www.instagram.com/sowhendoi/> TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@getinthegroove1> YouTube: www.youtube.com/@InTheGroove1Hosts and Executive Producers - Susan Feldman and Phyllis BergerCo-Producer, Engineer, & Editor - Spencer GanusCo-Producer & Editor - Caroline McClellandSocial Media Manager - Skylar HarrisonMusic - Ben Berger Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
- Apr 26, 202641 min
So When Do I… Open Up My Heart Again? With Marci and Lynn
Today, we're explore the question that inspired our podcast: So when do I take my clothes off? However, the real question is much deeper: When do we let ourselves be seen again?We’re joined by Marcy Dinkins and Lynn Williams, two women navigating dating after 50 following the loss of their husbands. Through very different journeys, they share what it’s really like to re-enter the dating world—awkward first dates, unexpected sparks, shifting identity, and the challenge of opening your heart again. We talk about confidence, independence, dating apps, and the reality of building a new life while honoring the one you had. If this resonates with you, we hope it serves as a reminder that you don’t have to rush, settle, or follow anyone else’s timeline when it comes to dating later in life.This podcast is proudly sponsored by Caddis, eyewear designed for people who see life clearly at every age. Use code "SOWHENDOI20" at checkout to enjoy 20% until 5/16/26.Don’t forget to follow for more:> Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/getinthegroove1/?hl=en & https://www.instagram.com/sowhendoi/> TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@getinthegroove1> YouTube: www.youtube.com/@InTheGroove1Hosts and Executive Producers - Susan Feldman and Phyllis BergerCo-Producer, Engineer, & Editor - Spencer GanusCo-Producer & Editor - Caroline McClellandSocial Media Manager - Skylar HarrisonMusic - Ben Berger Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
About So When Do I Take My Clothes Off?
We’re women who never stopped talking, questioning, debating — and occasionally challenging one another — about how to keep moving forward. We still love gathering, laughing, and talking things through, often with a glass of wine in hand, trying to make sense of what life has taught us so far… and what we’re still figuring out.Because the truth is, life doesn’t come with instructions — and the questions don’t stop just because you’ve lived a little.Which brings us to the title.So When Do I Take My Clothes Off? isn’t really about sex (though that may come up).It’s a metaphor for those moments when we quietly ask ourselves:When do I speak up?Let go?Start over?Try something new?Stop caring what everyone else thinks?Whether you’re navigating relationships, reinvention, loneliness, or simply wondering “Is this it… or is there more?” — you’re not alone. And if you need company, you can drop int
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