Ep 33: Asking for it (literally) with Gretta Duleba

Note: this is an adult podcast for adults.Welcome to the the SlutStack podcast! We are 2 wholesome sluts who talk about love, sex, and asking for what you want. This time we have a third wholesome slut, our friend Gretta Duleba! Gretta currently works in AI alignment, but previously was a software engineering manager and relationship/sex therapist.Follow the links to listen in your favorite podcatcher!In this episode, we cover:* Introducing Gretta! (00:40) * Journey to becoming a polyamorous slut (02:35)* Life as a relationship therapist specializing in poly/kinky couples and high-conflict situations (08:56)* Emotional regulation 101: how to fight better with your partner (15:30)* Kink dynamics and conflict resolution (20:49)* SlutCon and the stable marriage problem (28:53)* Red Means No (39:00)* Losing on purpose and Gretta’s first real CNC experience (43:33)* Rizz Under Uncertainty: Gretta’s SlutCon talk on rejection (52:16)* Motherhood, hormones, and poly parenting (58:02)* Moment of sexual gratitude (1:03:23)Submit your own listener questions at https://www.admonymous.co/chesed or by emailing askthesluts@gmail.comThank you to all the men who enabled this podcast, especially Chesed’s husband. And thanks to you for listening! If you like what we’re doing here (or if you really hate us and want to keep tabs), become a paid subscriber at sluts.substack.com.Stay on top of the sluts — subscribe! Get full access to SlutStack at sluts.substack.com/subscribe