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Shady and Safe

Ghosting, Loud & Wrong Friends, and Dating Drama

March 14, 2026·37 min
Episode Description from the Publisher

This episode gets real as we talk about the messy realities of friendship, dating, and navigating life as Black queer men.Topics we get into:• Why people hate when friends fall out and make up• The unspoken rules of Black queer culture• Ghosting — toxic behavior or just modern dating?• Would you defend a friend who is loud and wrong?• Should friends split the bill or just take turns paying?• Dating your friend’s ex — is it ever okay?• Is it weird to have a hierarchy in your friend group?And of course… plenty of shady stories along the way.

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