Sexology

EP498 - What Women Really Mean When They Want a Man to "Take Charge"

July 7, 2026·31 min
Episode Description from the Publisher

Welcome to Episode 498 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am excited to be joined by Amanda Dames who speaks to me about soft dom dynamics, masculinity, and communication in kink.In this episode Amanda and I discuss what it really means to be a soft dom and how this style of dominance is different than the harsh, controlling stereotypes often associated with dom-sub dynamics. We talk about the basis for soft domination, on care, attunement, emotional safety and the desire to bring out the best in a partner, as opposed to control, punishment or ego. As a Certified Somatica® Sex and Relationship Coach and Certified Sexologist, Amanda helps clients uncover a holistic and balanced relationship with intimacy. She understands that there is no one-size-fits-all approach, which is why she developed her own consulting method to support each person in discovering their unique path to fulfillment. Amanda’s work as The Kink Consultant is rooted in the path she took to embrace her own sexuality. Understanding the source of her kinks and core desires was the first step in her journey toward self-acceptance. She now uses this same approach to help individuals and couples embrace their kinky side with curiosity, confidence, and compassion.In this episode, you will hear:Understanding Soft DominationHealthy Power ExchangeCare Versus ControlMasculinity And SafetyToxic Manosphere CultureEmotional AttunementForeplay Outside The BedroomBuilding Erotic PolarityCommunication And Safe WordsAftercare And FeedbackHow To Be The Man She Desires: A Guide for Menhttps://nazanin-moali.mykajabi.com/be-the-man-she-desires-guide Book An Appointment With Dr. Nazanin Moalihttps://oasis2care.clientsecure.me  Podcast Produced by Vaudeo ProductionsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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