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Secrets from a Billionaires’ Matchmaker With Gina Hendrix

When Should You Sleep with Him

April 23, 2026·35 min
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When Should You Sleep With Him?It's the question every woman asks but nobody gives a straight answer to. Until now. In this episode, matchmaker Gina Hendrix sits down with bestselling author and relationship expert Matt Boggs — creator of Cracking the Man Code and co-founder of the Brave Thinking Institute — to give you the unfiltered truth about physical intimacy, what men actually respect, and why the timing of sex matters more than most women realize.Here's what nobody tells you: sleeping with a man does not advance his feelings for you. It doesn't make him more committed, more attached, or more serious about the relationship. In fact, for a lot of men, it does the opposite. Matt Boggs breaks down the biochemistry behind why men pull away after sex when emotional commitment hasn't been established first — and what happens instead when a woman makes him wait until he's truly invested. This is not about playing games. This is about understanding how men are actually wired and using that knowledge to protect yourself and attract the relationship you actually want.Gina also gets real about something women do constantly without realizing it — sleeping with men to advance the relationship, to keep him interested, or to avoid losing him. It doesn't work. It never works. And in this episode she gives you the exact words to use when you want to communicate your pace around physical intimacy without over-explaining yourself, without apologizing, and without giving him the impression that you're negotiating.Also covered: how to set physical boundaries without feeling like you're going to lose him, why the men who walk away when you make them wait were never going to commit anyway, how to tell the difference between a man who's genuinely investing in you versus one who's just killing time, and why the most powerful thing you can do in early dating is stop making decisions from a place of fear.Plus Matt shares the remarkable story of a 69-year-old woman who was convinced love had passed her by — and what happened when she finally stayed open to the possibility. It's the kind of story that will make you rethink every assumption you have about when it's too late and what's actually possible.If you've ever moved too fast physically and watched a promising relationship fall apart, or if you're currently seeing someone and wondering where the line is — this episode is going to give you clarity. New episodes every Thursday. Subscribe so you never miss a thing. Follow Gina on TikTok and Instagram @MatchmakerGinaHendrix and visit https://ginahendrix.com to learn more about her matchmaking and coaching programs.

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