161: Why does my ADHD kid LOVE to fight with me?!

This episode is for you if your ADHDer is prone to conflict. If your child appears to seek out a sibling, escalates with you quickly after hearing an answer they don't like, has to do a non-preferred task that is SO BORING!! I break down a few bits of science that is really helpful to understand WHY their brain is doing what it's doing. And once we know this, what can WE do as the parent to stop feeding the conflict and start building louder more positive options in the desired behavior pattern we want to see.  🎉STOP YELLING! The ADHD Behavior Blueprint is HERE!🎉 If you are sick and tired of the same repetitive behaviors and want to see real and permanent changes with you and your ADHD child, make sure you attend my upcoming FREE masterclass. https://calendly.com/responseableparenting/adhd-masterclass Please note: these masterclass dates fill up FAST. I am adding as many as I can. If nothing is available on the calendar register on this waitlist: https://responseableparenting.kit.com/waitlist  I will blast out new times as often as I can! If the masterclass is too far away, and you want to take the first step. Grab my 39 minute video / workbook combo where you will learn exactly why you feel so awful in these moments with your ADHD kid AND you'll learn the steps necessary to get out of the heat of the moment and stop reacting so quickly to the same repetitive fight.  You can grab Before You Lose It right here! https://responseable-community.circle.so/checkout/gap  And if you want to get started TODAY, jump right into the program. When you join you have MY EYES on your challenging patterns. Not just sometimes. But every single week, multiple times a week. You send me your situations, we work together on calls and inside the program until you have a solution that works for YOUR family. You will walk away with a repeatable system that you can use for any challenging pattern. No more strategy spaghetti, just real solutions that work WITH your ADHD child not against them.  https://www.responseableparenting.com/join FREE RESOURCES! Tired of repeating yourself over the same behaviors? Try this VALUES DECK OF CARDS! You can customize the cards to your family values and instead of dishing out yet another punishment, you can instill positive consequences through the actions on the back! https://responseableparenting.kit.com/cards Get the cheat codes to "stack" regulation practices throughout your day! No time to meditate? No problem. Grab this simple system and add ZERO time to your day! https://responseableparenting.kit.com/zero Book a call with me to connect on areas of your parenting that are causing pain, struggle, or frustration. https://calendly.com/responseableparenting/call