Raising Boys Building Men /: Reconnect with Your Teenage Son

100. 100th Episode Special: The Top 10 Parenting Mistakes Moms of Teenage Boys Make

September 14, 2026·29 min
Episode Description from the Publisher

Heidi is celebrating 100 episodes with something a little different. After over 30 years raising her own five sons and years of coaching moms of teenage boys, she is sharing the top 10 parenting mistakes she sees most, including ones she has made herself. None of them make you a bad mom. They just do not work in the long run. Takeaways: The number one mistake almost every mom makes without realizing it: managing her son instead of mentoring him. It feels like love, but it teaches him the wrong lesson. Keeping your son comfortable at all costs feels kind in the moment, but it quietly strips him of the one thing adolescence is supposed to build. Two research studies back up mistakes most moms never think twice about, one on family identity and one on chores starting as young as age three or four. Letting your teenager's opinion of your parenting sting too much is a trap. Heidi shares the line she used with her own sons when they told her she was ruining their lives. A powerful analogy from a past guest about "jumping in the pit" with your anxious son, and why staying on solid ground helps him more than joining him down there. Next Step: If you heard yourself in even one of these mistakes, you are not alone, and you are not failing. Book your free 30 minute Reconnection Strategy Call and Heidi will help you figure out what is standing in the way of the connection you want with your son, plus your next step forward. Only 5 spots a week, so grab yours below. For Additional Support: Visit our website Raisingboysbuildingmen.com HERE Schedule a FREE Relationship Reconnection Call with Me HERE Follow us on Instagram HERE Grab 8 tips to connect with your son today HERE   Want more conversations like this? Join our private Facebook community for moms raising teenage boys. We talk about real-life challenges, share strategies, and lift each other up—because you don’t have to do this alone. 👉 Join “Raising Boys, Building Men” on Facebook

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