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by Steve Moore & Mark Kastleman
Two sex addicts in long-term successful recovery are also world-class Counselors who specialize in porn and sex addiction recovery. Drawing on 40 years of combined personal and professional experience, Mark and Steve get raw and real about how to overcome addiction, heal betrayal trauma, and save your marriage. If you're struggling with addiction, they understand. Recovery is hard—they've been there. They'll help you take the fight to your addiction like never before. If you're married to an addict, they know what it's like to nearly destroy a marriage. They'll help you understand your husband's addiction and begin healing your betrayal trauma, regardless of what he decides to do. You don't have to stay stuck. You don't have to keep suffering. They've made all the mistakes so you don't have to. Take back your life. Take back your marriage. Let's do this together. This is the PBSE podcast.
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- Yesterday42 min
What to Do When an Addict Uses Recovery to Avoid Caring About His Partner?
This episode (#337) addresses the painful experience of a betrayed partner whose husband claims he is “in recovery” after a relapse, but continues to severely lack empathy, respond defensively, withdraw emotionally, and use recovery language as an excuse to avoid caring about her pain. We make it clear that asking about his recovery, needing reassurance, and wanting emotional support are not “games” or unreasonable demands; they are baseline needs in a coupleship damaged by betrayal. When an ...
- 1 weeks ago41 min
Betrayal Trauma, Childhood Trauma & My Own Addiction—Where Do I Even Start?
This episode (336) explores the painful and complicated reality of a young betrayed partner who is trying to recover from betrayal trauma while also carrying childhood trauma and her own history with porn/sex addiction. We begin by validating the sheer complexity of her situation and making clear that she is not crazy, cursed, or hopelessly broken. When betrayal trauma, early trauma, and addiction collide, each one can intensify the others, making the internal experience feel overwhelming and...
- 2 weeks ago42 min
Healthy Sexuality or Pornified Performance? Navigating Lingerie, Fantasies, Kinks, & Authentic Intimacy in Recovery
In this episode (335), we respond to a courageous submission from a betrayed partner who is navigating early recovery with her partner after multiple discovery days. Both partners have trauma histories, both are in individual therapy, and both are trying to understand what healthy sexual intimacy can look like after porn addiction, betrayal trauma, and past sexual coping patterns. Her questions center on lingerie, fantasies, kinks, dressing up, and whether these elements can ever be part of a...
- 3 weeks ago42 min
Am I REALLY Recovering—Or Just Using My Partner Instead of Porn?
In Episode 334, we respond to a submission from a man in early recovery who discovered, with honesty and concern, that he may be relying on his partner sexually in order to avoid relapse. His partner discovered his porn addiction, he disclosed much of what had happened, and both of them are now trying to work their own recovery. He recognizes that his brain has been deeply affected by addiction, especially when he is in public and finds himself battling objectification and scanning. He also r...
- 4 weeks ago44 min
"Why Do Intrusive Mental Images Still Hit Me—Even Years Into His Recovery?"
In this episode (#333), we address a question from a betrayed partner who is about three years into sex addiction recovery and betrayal trauma healing with her partner. Although he has been sober, involved in 12-step recovery, working with a sponsor, and the couple has gone through formal therapeutic disclosure, she still experiences intrusive mental images connected to his past acting out. We explain that these images are not evidence that she is failing in her healing. They are trauma respo...
- May 11, 202638 min
Half-In, Half-Out Recovery: He Says He’s Changing but Keeps the “Addiction Door” Cracked Open
In this PBSE episode (#332), we explore what it means when an addict says he is changing but continues to keep the “addiction door” cracked open. A betrayed partner may see signs that look like recovery—porn blockers, monitoring software, more honesty, fewer obvious acting-out behaviors—but still discover that her partner is seeking sexualized content through social media thirst traps, scanning, fantasy, or other loopholes. We make clear that this is not simply a “lesser version” of the origi...
- May 4, 202647 min
If He will NOT face His Porn Addiction—You as a Partner MUST find Your Voice NOW!
In this episode (#331), we respond to a betrayed partner who discovered her husband’s ongoing porn use while she was pregnant and has since caught him multiple times in the same painful cycle: he apologizes, promises to stop, briefly improves, becomes defensive, grows distant, and eventually lies again. The most recent betrayal was especially devastating because he told her he no longer watched porn only hours before she discovered the truth. Now postpartum, exhausted, and emotionally wounded...
- Apr 28, 202642 min
No D-Day, No Disclosure—But I KNOW I’ve Been Betrayed: Healing from Integrity Abuse When the Truth Is Still Hidden
In Episode 330, Mark & Steve address a uniquely painful and confusing experience for many betrayed partners: living with a deep sense of betrayal and trauma without ever receiving a full disclosure or definitive proof of wrongdoing. We explain that the absence of a “D-Day” does not mean the absence of harm, and that many partners endure years of emotional instability, manipulation, and invalidation that create real trauma regardless of whether specific behaviors are confirmed. By expandin...
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Two sex addicts in long-term successful recovery are also world-class Counselors who specialize in porn and sex addiction recovery. Drawing on 40 years of combined personal and professional experience, Mark and Steve get raw and real about how to overcome addiction, heal betrayal trauma, and save your marriage. If you're struggling with addiction, they understand. Recovery is hard—they've been there. They'll help you take the fight to your addiction like never before. If you're married to an addict, they know what it's like to nearly destroy a marriage. They'll help you understand your husband's addiction and begin healing your betrayal trauma, regardless of what he decides to do. You don't have to stay stuck. You don't have to keep suffering. They've made all the mistakes so you don't have to. Take back your life. Take back your marriage. Let's do this together. This is the PBSE podcast.
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