E272: What Do Men Really Think About….? (Part 5) Rough Sex, Vibrators, and What Turns Them Off

It’s time for another episode of What Do Men Really Think About… and Xander’s back in the hot seat to answer your burning questions about preferences, fantasies, the death grip, and how to give better feedback in bed. Plus, we’re giving you questions to share with your partner to help you get on the same page and build your goals for your sex life! 💛 In this episode, you'll hear:  🔥 Do men actually prefer rough sex? 💬 The most misunderstood thing about men and sex 🕯️ How to use the 5 to 10 minutes right after sex for more connection 🗣️ Do men really want feedback in bed? 🍑 Reverse cowgirl, the view, and the butthole anxiety 💧 How men really feel about discharge and everything else your body does during sex 🔌 Do men get upset when you need a vibrator to orgasm? ❓ A round of quick fire preference questions to take home and ask your partner tonight 🕯️ Want more connection, intimacy, and spark in your relationship every single month?  The Spark is our monthly membership for couples who want to keep intimacy alive without having to figure it all out on their own.  Fresh, doable ways to connect delivered every month, so you never run out of ideas Real guidance from a sex therapist and her very own regular dude Low pressure prompts and conversations that actually fit your real life Built for couples in any season, whether things feel stuck or you just want more of a good thing 💛 Stay Connected 👉🏻 Check out The Spark here: https://vmtherapy.com/spark  📸 Follow us on Instagram → https://instagram.com/vanessaandxander 💌 Get our weekly email, real talk, expert tips, and zero shame → https://vmtherapy.com/subscribe ========================== THANKS TO OUR SPONSORS ========================== 👏Thanks Blissy. Because you’re a listener, Blissy is offering 60-nights risk-free PLUS use code PILLOWPOD to get an additional 30% off. Your skin and hair will thank you!➡︎https://blissy.com/PILLOWPOD 👏Thanks Cure. Cure Hydration just launched in Target, which I'm genuinely pumped about. I stocked up last week and the box is already half gone. So next time you're at Target, grab some! Use the code PILLOWTALKS for 20% off. ➡︎https://curehydration.com/PILLOWTALKS 👏Thanks Quince. Make your summer wardrobe easier. Get free shipping on your order and 365-day returns. Now available in Canada too. ➡︎https://quince.com/pillow Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices