Parenting With Psychology

STOP Toddler Tantrums BEFORE They Start

June 9, 2026·19 min
Episode Description from the Publisher

✨ Stop toddler tantrums before they start. Learn the complete system: drlindsayemmerson.com/workshop Stop toddler tantrums before they start by catching the Pivot Window — the specific period before a child fully dysregulates where three strategies can redirect the escalation entirely. Dr. Lindsay Emmerson explains why the instinctive parental responses in this window make meltdowns more likely, and what to do instead. In this episode: → •       What the Pivot Window is and how to recognize it in children ages 1–7 •       Why reasoning, explaining, and waiting all make things worse in this specific window •       Option 1: Redirection — how to shift attention before escalation becomes self-sustaining •       Option 2: Humor — feigned drama, commentator mode, and the deliberate error technique •       Option 3: Tension break — change of subject and change the tone •       Two scripted before-and-after examples (ages 3 and 6) •       A realistic results timeline: what to expect in days 1–3, days 4–7, and week 2+   🎓 Go deeper on staying calm in challenging parenting moments: 👉 drlindsayemmerson.com/workshop   💬 Comment TRY below if you're going to use one of these this week. I read every single one. 💛 #StopToddlerTantrums #ToddlerMeltdowns #PositiveParenting #ParentingToddlers #ToddlerBehavior #ChildDevelopment #DrLindsayEmmerson #ParentingWithPsychology #CalmParenting #Toddler New to my podcast?  I'm Dr. Lindsay Emmerson, a clinical psychologist and Mom of 4, and I help parents find that sweet spot between support and structure that psychology research tells us is best for families now and best for our kids in the future. ------------------------------------------- Let's connect! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drlindsayemmerson TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@drlindsayemmerson Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/@drlindsayemmerson ------------------------------------------- Disclaimer: The advice provided on my channel is different from therapy and does not substitute for professional psychological treatment or other types of professional advice or intervention.  Never disregard the advice of a medical professional or postpone seeking professional medical advice related to anything you hear on this channel.   If you or your child have concerns or need further parenting or personal support, please contact a physician or other qualified local health professional.

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