Don't Pre-Apologize for Your Amazing Life!

One of my favorite speakers, Jon Acuff, said something this week that stopped me cold: "We like labels because they offer an explanation for behavior we don't want to change." Ouch. I felt seen, called out, and set free all at the same time and I had to bring it straight to you. In this episode, I'm sharing the quote that changed the way I see every excuse I've ever made, why "I'm just not good at that" might be the most expensive sentence you ever speak over yourself, and what I finally realized after years of running on Karen Power and wondering why I kept hitting the wall. I'm also getting real about a pattern I see in myself and so many of the people I love,  pre-apologizing for the very gifts that helped us survive. The affirmations I've been writing since I was ten years old, the ones that carried me through addiction in my home, heartbreak, and seasons with nothing left. I've been calling them "just a little affirmation book." Not anymore. our gifts were never meant to come with an apology.Episode Highlights:[01:12] The labels we use as excuses not to change[03:17] "I'm not talented and smart enough to be unprepared"[06:24] What going to bed discouraged is really telling you[13:32] Karen Power vs. plugging into the RIGHT source[17:56] You can't change others — but you have 100% control over changing yourself[19:41] When you stop saving people, they learn to save themselves[25:37] I've been pre-apologizing for my own gifts — and I'm done![30:04] Anticipate the best — the Shore House story that got me good[31:29] Closing affirmation & sendin' you off with a full heartSpecial Thanks to Our SponsorsBuffalo Rock Pepsi: www.buffalorock.comSumthin's Cookin': https://somethinscookin.com/homeHoliday Beach Mechanical: https://www.holidaybeachmechanical.comTeam Patriot LLC: https://teampatriotllc.comGypsy Willow: https://gypsywillowretail.comHue Salon: https://www.huesalonandboutique.comElysian Med Spa: https://elysianpcb.com/Ferrucci's: https://ferruccipc.com/Shore House Furniture: https://shorehousefurniture.comLinks & Resources: The Road Less Stupid by Keith J. Cunningham:https://a.co/d/0essMG65Let's Stay Connected!Follow along @BeSweetYall on Instagram, Facebook, and TikTok. Subscribe on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, and YouTube so you never miss a single episode.Subscribe on YouTubeWatch the full video episode and see all the hand motions and good energy in person! Subscribe to our YouTube channel at @BeSweetYall! We'd love to have you in our sweet community over there!Get My Love Note NewsletterWant a little sweetness delivered straight to your inbox? Sign up for the Be Sweet Y'all Love Note email newsletter at https://besweetyall.comit's our way of stayin' close between episodes!Presented by ADF MediaBe sweet, y'all!