#290 Kink Education and the Nuances of Consent (with Rae Szereszewski)

On this episode of #mensexpleasure, Cam chats with Rae Szereszewski, a sexual health educator and relationship coach, to discuss sexual choking/strangulation, noting there is no fully safe way but there are harm-reduction approaches and a need for teen education beyond pregnancy/STIs given porn influence. Rae reframes STI education as “not if, but when,” focuses on non-stigmatizing disclosure and communication, advocates “team disclosure." They also cover sex-positive space etiquette, consent as a spectrum, and aligning words and actions with better check-ins.Key Points:08:12 Why Kink Feels Good16:32 Adult Sex Ed on STIs29:05 Free Testing Access35:11 Kink Scene Etiquette40:51 Consent Beyond Asking