Yudi & Chumi Herzberg: The Story of Charlotte

This week, Nachi Gordon sits down with Yudi and Chumi Herzberg to talk about the life, story, and legacy of their daughter Charlotte, who passed away in a car accident on June 2. Yudi and Chumi walk through what made Charlotte so uniquely herself, the note she left her mother the night before the accident, and how they found out and told the rest of their kids. They also talk candidly about the ups and downs since then, including recognizing the driver as a close family friend, and how they came to see the tragedy as coming entirely from Hashem rather than from any person to blame.   The conversation turns toward Shalom for Charlotte, the movement Yudi and Chumi built out of the accident, aimed at inspiring people to make peace in their own relationships. They share some of the thousands of stories that have poured in since Charlotte passed, from decades long feuds ending to siblings reconnecting, and talk about what it has meant to watch their daughter's legacy grow into something so much bigger than themselves.   This episode is sponsored by:   ► PZ Deals   Never pay full price again when you download the PZ Deals app.   https://app.pz.deals/install/mpp   _____________________   ► Colel Chabad Pushka App   The easiest way to give Tzedaka.   https://pushkapp.cc/meaningful   _____________________   ► Aura House   A sleek, flame free cold air diffuser that fills your home with a five star hotel scent, with no parabens or phthalates. A perfect wedding gift. Use code MEANINGFUL15 for 15% off.   https://aurahouse.com   _____________________   ► Values Over Valuables   A campaign encouraging people to live a value based life instead of buying whatever they can afford. Watch the video and take the pledge.   https://valuesovervaluables.org   _____________________   ► Voice 37 by Isaac Honig   An all natural vocal booster made with organic herbs that lasts 12 to 24 hours, made for singers and especially for chazzanim heading into the Yomim Noraim. Available on Amazon.   https://clyor.com/voice37 https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01N26UG0V/   _____________________   ► Ness Vacation Homes   Eden Gardens' largest luxury home collection. Handpicked, high end homes available exclusively through Ness.   https://nessvacationhomes.com/   _____________________   ► Rothenberg Law Firm   Personal Injury Law Firm for 50+ years! Reach out today for a free case evaluation.   https://shorturl.at/JFKHH   _____________________   ► Town Appliance   Visit the website or message them on WhatsApp.   https://www.townappliance.com https://bit.ly/Townappliance_whatsapp   Timestamps:   0:00 Intro 3:48 Charlotte's Personality and Big Feelings 8:55 The Note Charlotte Left the Night Before the Accident 15:49 Reliving June 2: How the Accident Unfolded 19:27 Yudi's Hope at the Scene and the Ride to the Hospital 23:19 Telling Their Other Children What Happened 25:27 Hatzalah, Neighbors, and the Community's Response 29:20 Recognizing the Driver as a Close Family Friend 33:18 Being on the Same Page as a Couple 35:09 Grief During and After Shiva 44:46 Seeing Hashem Clearly Through the Tragedy 47:46 Why They Chose the Name Shalom for Charlotte 52:18 Adjusting to Life After Shiva Ended 1:00:18 Turning Their Story Into Chizuk for Others <p