Ep 68: Emotional Abuse vs Narcissism: Why He Doesn’t Change | Lundy Bancroft

What if the real issue isn’t narcissism—but entitlement, control, and emotional abuse?In this Marriage Rehab episode, Dr. David Hawkins sits down with Lundy Bancroft, author of Why Does He Do That?, to unpack one of the most confusing questions women ask: Why does he act this way—and why doesn’t he change?They explore the difference between narcissism, emotional immaturity, and abusive behavior; why traditional couples counseling can make things worse; why apologies and promises are not enough; and the red flags that reveal when power and double standards are driving the relationship.In this episode, we discuss:• Emotional abuse vs narcissism: what actually matters• Why abuse is not a “two-way street”• Why boundaries alone usually don’t fix abuse• The role of entitlement, payback, and double standards• Why exhaustion is often the clearest warning sign• What real change would actually have to look likeIf you’re asking:Is he abusive or just emotionally immature?Why do I feel exhausted, confused, and like I can’t do anything right?Can an abusive partner really change?This conversation gives language, clarity, and next steps.Take the Marriage Recovery Center Relationship Assessment:https://marriagerecoverycenter.com/assessment/Lundy Bancroft:https://lundybancroft.comBook: Why Does He Do That? Amazon: https://a.co/d/0jdqkj1C