There’s a Big Difference Between “They Don’t Care” and “They’re Trying”

Send us Fan Mail There’s a huge difference between the spouse who simply doesn’t care… and the one who may get things wrong—but genuinely means well and is trying their best. And if we treat those two like they’re the same… we create pain where there only needed to be patience, perspective, and grace. Not every missed expectation is intentional. Not every mistake means they don’t care. Sometimes your partner is: learning in real time undoing what they were never taught trying to love you well...