You Don't Know Me: Loving Who She Used to Be Instead of Who She Is Now

In this episode of It’s Been a Journey, Shenelle gets real about one of the most overlooked issues in relationships—loving someone based on who they used to be instead of who they are today. Many marriages and relationships aren’t falling apart from lack of love, but from lack of understanding. When a woman evolves and her partner continues to operate from outdated assumptions, emotional disconnection begins to grow silently. This episode challenges men to relearn their women, not rely on memory, and invites honest reflection on how misconceptions can slowly damage intimacy, trust, and communication. If you’ve ever felt unseen, misunderstood, or emotionally alone while still being “in” a relationship—this conversation is for you.#itsbeenajourneypodcast #itsbeenajourney #podcast #youdontknowme #husbandandwife #marriage #relationship