divorce, daddy issues & growing up too fast | #97

Hello Heelers, producer Kai here!Maggy and I have gone through "divorce" in different ways, and we sit down to talk about what it does, not just to the couple, but to the kids; Growing up too fast, and how it affects your future relationships in unexpected ways, and whether the best parts of you can really come from the worst things that happened to you.No guests. Just two people who've lived it.In this episode you'll learn:• Why asking a child to choose between parents is more damaging than people realise• How abuse at home as a kid makes red flags feel normal in relationships later• Why "mature for your age" is often just a polite way of saying you had to grow up too fast• How hyper-independence shows up as a symptom• How abandonment issues can affect your future relationships• Why kids remember more than adults think they do• How staying together for the kids can do more damage than the divorce itself• Why there's no need to revenge• What it actually takes to break the cycleOUR COUCH IS FROM: ✨ LANOUVA @lanouvasofa✨ shoutout for our beautiful new couch in the fresh HOH Studio! don't forget to mention: HEADOVERHEELS to get RM300 OFF your next couch with Lanouva 🛋 Terms & Conditions: 1. Applicable for sofa purchases only 2. Valid until 31 August 2026 3. Limited to the first 50 successful redemptions 4. Promo must be mentioned prior to order confirmation. 5. Make your appointment via Instagram DM @launovasofa----------------------------------------------------------------------ABOUT US: Hosted by Maggy Wang, this podcast is where real talk meets real life — messy, mundane, and everything in between. From everyday struggles to smashing through stigmas, we know you're here for the unfiltered conversations. There will be laughter, there will be awkward silence and maybe some tears.One thing's for sure: You won't get enough. So kick off your shoes (or heels), grab a seat and #letsgetheadoverheelsLet us know if you enjoyed this episode and found it helpful! We wanna hear what YOU want to do & talk about next. NEW WEEKLY HOH EPISODES EVERY THURSDAY AT 6PMFollow us on:Instagram: @theheadoverheelspodMaggy: @themaggywang