How to Be Displeasing

Hey girl, In this solo episode, I break down why so many women struggle with banter in dating and what is really underneath that discomfort. We talk about common fears women have when trying to be playful with men, especially the worry about being misunderstood, coming off the wrong way, or not knowing what to say. I also share how banter can actually be one of the most powerful tools for evaluating chemistry and keeping dating light, fun, and engaging. But the deeper conversation is about something bigger than humor. Many women have been socialized to be pleasing, agreeable, and accommodating, especially toward men. Banter challenges that conditioning. In this episode, I explore how learning to be a little more “displeasing” in dating can actually be empowering. When used with warmth and authenticity, banter becomes a way to set boundaries, test compatibility, and step fully into your power as the chooser in your dating life. Whenever You Are Ready Here are 3 ways I can help you: ​Book A Call With Me - I've been getting A LOT of DM and email requests to chat with me and answer specific questions about love, dating, relationships, and men, so I'm opening back up my limited calendar for a few calls. So book a time with me here! Join the Get Your Guy Club- Wanna have Dating Support for a year to help you get your guy, but at your own pace. You can get access to my 2 weekly group calls, my private Facebook group, Monthly 1-on-1 calls, and my online course with 40+ hours of content for just monthly payments of $350… ​Check out the Get Your Guy Coaching Podcast- With more than 100 episodes, you can binge and learn so much with my podcast. Check out the latest episode here. ​ Sincerely, Coach Anwar Book a Consult to Work with Me Join my Get Your Guy Club Buy My Dating Strategy Course Check out My Latest Podcast Episode Missed any of my Q&A TikTok Live sessions? Send us Fan Mail Thank You: A big thank you to our listeners for tuning in! Your support and feedback are invaluable to us. If you enjoyed this episode, please consider subscribing, rating, and sharing the podcast with others who might benefit from it. For more updates and behind-the-scenes content, follow me on social media and visit my website. We appreciate you being part of our community!