Fight for Love with Michael Jai White & Gillian White

FFL #014: The Truth About Emotional Intimacy (Men Need to Hear This) w/ Dr. Spirit | Fight For Love

May 13, 2026·1h 14m
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“Love is not enough.”That might be the most uncomfortable truth couples need to hear.In this powerful episode of Fight for Love, Michael and Gillian sit down with Dr. Spirit — psychologist, healer, and mother of seven — to unpack:• Why trauma follows us into relationships• The real reason marriages decline over time• Emotional intimacy vs just “doing life” together• Why men are struggling in today’s relationship landscape• Social media — medicine or poison?• Why scheduling intimacy can actually save your marriage• The difference between surviving and thriving• Why vulnerability is strength — not weakness• What healthy masculinity actually looks likeDr. Spirit breaks down her “RISES” framework for intimacy — the blueprint for relationships that don’t just last… but grow.Michael speaks candidly about breaking generational cycles, evolving as a man, and becoming the partner your spouse would be foolish to walk away from.This isn’t surface-level love talk.This is about:Healing.Intentionality.Evolution.And building something that rises.Because this is what we fight for.We fight for love.🔗 CONNECT WITH USFight For LoveInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/fightforlovepodcastMichael Jai WhiteInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/officialmichaeljaiGillian WhiteInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/iamgillianwhite⏱️ CHAPTERS 0:00 – Welcome Dr. Spirit4:45 – The Stigma Around Therapy in Our Community9:12 – Social Media: Medicine or Poison?16:50 – Why Everyone Thinks Their Opinion Is Equal23:10 – The Evolution of Masculinity31:20 – Stop Living Event to Event38:40 – Love Is Not Enough43:15 – The RISES Intimacy Framework51:00 – Why Couples Become Roommates1:00:30 – Schedule Intimacy (Yes, Really)1:08:45 – Long Distance Relationships & Support1:16:00 – Vulnerability Is Strength

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