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Fight for Love with Michael Jai White & Gillian White

FFL #010 Your Pride May Be Costing You the Love of Your Life | Fight For Love

April 15, 2026·46 min
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“My father was a fool… he held on to his pride instead of fighting for my mother.”That line alone will shake somebody.In this episode of Fight for Love, Michael and Gillian break down what it really means to Block & Counter in life and in relationships.Because negativity is coming.From social media.From the news.From strangers.From family.Sometimes even from the people who say they love you.They talk about:• Blocking negativity online (and in real life)• Why arguing with miserable people costs you power• Family members who secretly resent your success• The Spawn premiere story that changed everything• Generational trauma and inherited jealousy• Why holding grudges only burns YOU• Forgiveness as discipline• The father who let pride steal his soulmate• Regret vs fighting for love• Setting boundaries without becoming bitter• Toxic friends — ultimatum or insecurity?Michael shares how his father spent 30 years loving a woman he never fought for…And how pride can quietly destroy a lifetime.Gillian breaks down the balance between blocking negativity and not becoming cold.You cannot control what comes at you.But you can control your counter.This is what we fight for.We fight for love.🔗 CONNECT WITH THEMMichael Jai WhiteInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/officialmichaeljaiFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/officialmichaeljaiGillian WhiteInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/iamgillianwhite⏱ CHAPTERS00:00 – Pride Cost Him Everything02:01 – What “Block & Counter” Really Means03:00 – Stop Arguing With Negative People06:45 – Road Rage & Emotional Control08:15 – Self-Control Saved My Life11:01 – “Too Bad You’re Black”15:21 – Family Members Who Don’t Want You to Win17:46 – The Spawn Premiere Story20:12 – Jealousy Is Their Pain, Not Yours24:30 – Holding Hot Coals (Forgiveness Lesson)26:00 – My Father Chose Pride Over Love29:16 – Regret Is Worse Than Rejection31:11 – Boundaries vs Becoming Cold33:13 – Media Feeds You Negativity34:40 – Why We Said No to Reality TV36:07 – Serving Others Is the Real Calling39:38 – Listener Question: His Toxic Friends42:31 – Are You Being Controlling?45:42 – Block What You Can’t Control

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