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Join your host, Zach Randles-Friedman, for engaging conversations that delves into a myriad of topics, offering heartfelt stories from the LGBTQ+ community and beyond. Tune in for an inclusive blend of personal anecdotes, thought-provoking insights, and empowering narratives that embrace the richness of diversity and allyship with many laughs.
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- Yesterday52 min
Ep. 276: Heated Rivalry Lookalike Felix Eller on Coming Out, Family & His Hit the Town App
In this episode of Everything & Anything…and a Bit Gay, Zach talks with Felix Eller — the Richmond, Virginia native who unexpectedly went viral for winning a Heated Rivalry-themed lookalike contest. In this episode: Felix's coming out story — being told he was gay before he'd considered it himself Middle school bullying, a death threat, and a year of homeschooling A first relationship ended by a conversion therapy threat Full-circle acceptance from parents, siblings, and even his great-grandmother How the lookalike contest led to a real date — and a viral jumbotron kiss at TD Garden in Boston Setting boundaries with press to make sure his full story got told, not just the viral moment Handling trolls and online hate with perspective Building Hit the Town, his app spotlighting queer-, Black-, and woman-owned businesses Plans for modeling, Rocky Horror Picture Show, and a move to New York City Follow Felix and check out Hit the Town https://www.instagram.com/felix.eller/ https://chirp.me/felixeller Hit the Town Crowdfunding https://www.freefunder.com/campaign/hit-the-town If you enjoyed this conversation, subscribe, rate, and share it with someone who needs to hear it. Podcast song by SIXFOOT 5: https://www.sixfoot5prod.com Apple: https://music.apple.com/us/artist/sixfoot-5/1551774977 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/artist/5rHMzoU0G0fLhaBsrQiOOY?si=laSZ5hiKTYubJJyhrzf2JQ Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
- 3 days ago25 min
Ep. 275: What If I Never Left? Revisiting My Childhood Hometown in Southern Illinois
In this week's This Is Everything episode, Zach takes listeners on a trip back to Southern Illinois, where he visited his mother for her birthday and revisited the tiny rural town he lived in until age seven. He reflects on what his life could have looked like had his family never relocated to Florida — the bullying he likely would have faced, the lack of diversity in his childhood school, and the very real possibility his life would have taken a darker turn. He traces the ripple effects of that one relocation decision all the way to meeting his husband in New York City 27+ years ago, and reflects on gratitude, chosen paths, and the "what if" moments that shape a life. Podcast song by SIXFOOT 5: https://www.sixfoot5prod.com Apple: https://music.apple.com/us/artist/sixfoot-5/1551774977 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/artist/5rHMzoU0G0fLhaBsrQiOOY?si=laSZ5hiKTYubJJyhrzf2JQ Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
- 4 days ago52 min
Ep. 274: Furry Fandom Explained: An Israeli Combat Vet on Fursonas, Community & Healing
Title: Inside the Furry Fandom: A Veteran's Journey Through Fursonas, Community & Healing Episode Summary: This week on Everything & Anything…and a Bit Gay, Zach sits down with Mika (Mikadothebusky25), a content creator and proud member of the furry fandom, for a conversation that goes far beyond the stereotypes. Mika breaks down what the furry community actually is, how fursonas are created, and why the fandom has become a comfort space for people navigating identity, gender expression, and mental health. He also opens up about his background as a former Israeli military sniper, his experience surviving the October 7th attacks and the loss of his children, and how art and community became part of his healing process after being medically discharged and relocating to the United States. The two also dig into the economics of fursuits (some costing upwards of $20,000), what conventions like Anthrocon actually look like, the overlap between the furry world and LGBTQ+ culture, and the community's own accountability standards around protecting minors and animals from the small minority who give the fandom a bad name. Episode Notes: What the furry fandom is (and isn't) — and its roots as a comfort community How fursonas are created and how they can evolve over time The cost and craftsmanship behind fursuits ($1,500–$75,000+) Mika's path from growing up in Israel to serving as a sniper, surviving October 7th, and starting over in the U.S. How the furry community helped him process trauma and repressed emotion The overlap between furry culture and LGBTQ+ identity and expression A look inside furry conventions — Anthrocon in Pittsburgh draws up to 180,000 attendees Community safety norms: how the fandom identifies and excludes anyone who harms minors or animals Furries vs. bronies — how the two communities differ Finding love and chosen family through the fandom, including meeting his fiancé on VRChat Advice for anyone curious about exploring the community Where to find Mika: TikTok @Mikadothebusky25 Podcast song by SIXFOOT 5: https://www.sixfoot5prod.com Apple: https://music.apple.com/us/artist/sixfoot-5/1551774977 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/artist/5rHMzoU0G0fLhaBsrQiOOY?si=laSZ5hiKTYubJJyhrzf2JQ Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
- 5 days ago59 min
Ep. 273: 9/11 Hero's Hidden Story: HIV, Survival Sex Work & Redemption | Neil Adams
Author Neil Adams joins the show to talk about his memoir chronicling the extraordinary life of his late best friend, Michael Dorian — a veterinary technician who talked his way past the barricades on 9/11 to help exhausted firefighters at Ground Zero, despite having no medical credentials and living with HIV. Neil traces Michael's story from a chaotic childhood in the Bronx, through an HIV diagnosis at 16, to the found-family relationship that helped him finish school and rebuild his life. They discuss how Michael juggled relationships while managing his status, the guilt he carried over unknowingly transmitting HIV to a partner, and how his 24 hours at the pile on 9/11 ultimately led to a rare cancer diagnosis nearly two decades later. Zach shares his own experience being inside the World Financial Center on 9/11, and the two reflect on the fight for Victims Compensation Fund recognition, Michael's NYPD Medal of Valor, his appearance in Spike Lee's 9/11 documentary, and why preserving LGBTQ+ history — including the realities of the AIDS crisis — still matters today. Guest: Neil Adams, authorWebsite: readneiladams.comTopics: 9/11 first responders, HIV/AIDS history, LGBTQ+ memoir, chosen family, Victims Compensation Fund Podcast song by SIXFOOT 5: https://www.sixfoot5prod.com Apple: https://music.apple.com/us/artist/sixfoot-5/1551774977 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/artist/5rHMzoU0G0fLhaBsrQiOOY?si=laSZ5hiKTYubJJyhrzf2JQ Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
- 1 weeks ago26 min
Ep. 272: The Friend Who Knows Everyone, Lies About Everything | The Gay Bit
It's Friday, and that means it's The Gay Bit — where Zach makes sure the week ends as gay as possible. This week, Zach takes us on a tour of a very specific type of friend: the one who knows every owner, attended every opening, and has somehow been to every event before you even finish your sentence. You know the type. Zach does too — and he's got receipts. He also flashes back to a wild chapter from his Chase Manhattan Bank days, featuring a coworker who claimed she dumped LL Cool J because he got too famous, and whose daughter allegedly went from zero piano lessons to a Carnegie Hall solo in two weeks flat. Two weeks. Plus: what happens when someone lets a corporate promotion go completely to their head, a red Australian clay mask prank that did NOT go according to plan (Andrew remains unbothered), and the big news — Zach got his ears pierced again at 53 and has zero regrets. In this episode: The "I know the owner" friend and what the psychology might be behind it A corporate crash course in how not to act after a promotion The Chase Manhattan coworker who dated LL Cool J (allegedly) Carnegie Hall: two weeks of piano lessons, one impossible story Andrew vs. the red clay mask prank Ear piercing, belly buttons, and doing whatever you want at 53 New episodes drop daily. Subscribe so you never miss a Gay Bit — or the guests coming your way every Sunday. 📲 Follow Zach on Instagram: @TheRealZachRE 🎙️ Leave a rating and review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify — it helps more people find the show. Podcast song by SIXFOOT 5: https://www.sixfoot5prod.com Apple: https://music.apple.com/us/artist/sixfoot-5/1551774977 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/artist/5rHMzoU0G0fLhaBsrQiOOY?si=laSZ5hiKTYubJJyhrzf2JQ Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
- 1 weeks ago1h 16m
Ep. 271: Surviving Cancer Sucks — But So Does Pretending You're Back to Normal | Edward Miskie
What happens after the cancer is gone? For actor, filmmaker, author, and cancer survivor Edward Miskie, the answer is: the hardest part. In this raw, deeply honest, and at times hilarious conversation, Edward joins Zach to talk about being diagnosed with lymphoma at 24 while performing in Hairspray in Reno, Nevada — a tumor the size of a grapefruit growing under his arm, costumes being let out to fit around it — and what came after surviving the unsurvivable. Edward pulls zero punches. He talks about drinking his way through chemo, swimming in the ocean during radiation and getting a parasite, and the moment he thought his life was actually over. But the conversation goes even deeper into what he calls surviving cancer sucks — that devastating, disorienting realization that "back to normal" is a lie. That the person you were before cancer is gone. That while you were in treatment fighting to stay alive, the rest of the world just... kept going. Edward also shares the story behind his acclaimed documentary short Back to Normal, which has won Best Story at the Toronto and Los Angeles Documentary Short Film Festival, and why he made it — to finally have the conversation no one was having about life after cancer. He talks about the Remission Film Festival he founded in New York City (the only film festival of its kind, focused on creators impacted by cancer), his book Cancer, Musical Theater, and Other Chronic Illnesses, and what he tells anyone who's still pretending they're fine: stop it and swing for the fences. This is one of those conversations where Zach forgot he was even recording a podcast. Episode Notes: 🎬 About Edward Miskie: Edward Miskie is a New York-based actor, filmmaker, author, and cancer survivor. Diagnosed with lymphoma in 2011 while performing in regional theater, he went on to build a second life defined by radical honesty, creative audacity, and a refusal to pretend everything is fine. 📽️ Back to Normal — Edward's documentary short film, currently on the film festival circuit. Watch for upcoming screenings and future distribution. Keep up with Edward on social media for details. 🎟️ Remission Film Festival — The only film festival focused on creators impacted by cancer. Held annually in New York City, with live streaming available. This past April featured 14 films, 35 submissions from across the globe, and raised money for Blood Cancer United. remissionfilmfestival.com (confirm URL with Edward) 📚 Cancer, Musical Theater, and Other Chronic Illnesses — Edward's book about diagnosis, survivorship, and coming out the other side — set against the backdrop of musical theater. Available on Amazon and Barnes & Noble. Learn more about Edward https://www.edwardmiskie.com/ https://www.instagram.com/edwardmiskie Podcast song by SIXFOOT 5: https://www.sixfoot5prod.com Apple: https://music.apple.com/us/artist/sixfoot-5/1551774977 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/artist/5rHMzoU0G0fLhaBsrQiOOY?si=laSZ5hiKTYubJJyhrzf2JQ Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
- 1 weeks ago23 min
Ep. 270: Why Gay People Have Attitude — And We've Earned Every Bit of It | This Is Everything
Gay people have attitude. It's a stereotype — and it's also true. But the question was never why are gay people bitchy? The real question is: what did the world do to create that? In this episode of This Is Everything, Zach gets personal about the armor that LGBTQ+ people build just to survive — the thick skin, the shade, the sharp wit, the hypervigilance about who's safe in the room. It's not a personality flaw. It's scar tissue. From six months of silence in his childhood home after coming out to his father, to guests who were beaten, threatened, and tortured just for existing — Zach traces the real origin of gay attitude. He talks about ballroom culture as an act of pure defiance, the 700+ anti-LGBTQ legislative bills moving through government right now, and why a quiet, apologetic gay person is easier to ignore — and why that's exactly the problem. This one hits. In this episode: The stereotype that's actually true — and why it exists Guests who were beaten, threatened, and left death threats in their lockers just for being LGBTQ+ Six months of silence: Zach's father not speaking to him after he came out — and what happened after Why gay attitude is scar tissue, not personality Andrew's grandfather and mother, and what unconditional acceptance actually looks like Reading the room at work: the survival skill every LGBTQ+ person develops Ballroom culture, voguing, and building a family out of defiance Transgender guests at 50, 60, and 66 — and what choosing your authentic self actually costs Over 700 anti-LGBTQ bills in the United States right now The AIDS crisis, Stonewall, police raids, and why older generations carry what they carry A message to every LGBTQ+ person still standing: you are fucking incredible Connect with Zach: 🌐 everythingandanythingpodcast.com 📸 Instagram: @TheRealZachRE Everything & Anything…and a Bit Gay — new episodes weekly. Subscribe, rate, and share if this one hit home. Podcast song by SIXFOOT 5: https://www.sixfoot5prod.com Apple: https://music.apple.com/us/artist/sixfoot-5/1551774977 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/artist/5rHMzoU0G0fLhaBsrQiOOY?si=laSZ5hiKTYubJJyhrzf2JQ Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
- 1 weeks ago1h 26m
Ep. 269: Chaz Dean on WEN, Celebrity Clients, Giving Back & His Secret Skincare Routine
One of the most recognizable names in beauty joins us for a deeply personal, wide-ranging conversation. Chaz Dean — the creator of WEN Cleansing Conditioner, with over 100 million bottles sold — sits down with Zach to talk about far more than hair. This is a conversation about following your instincts, building a legacy on your own terms, the chosen family that shapes you, and why giving back isn't something you do when you can afford it — it's something you do with whatever you have. Chaz shares the story of how he almost took a job at Vidal Sassoon but walked away when they told him he had to choose between cutting and coloring. He talks about the moments that shaped him: getting exploited early in his career, using those experiences as fuel rather than reasons to quit, and ultimately building one of the most iconic product lines in beauty history. He opens up about his celebrity clients — from Jennie Garth (a friendship of over 30 years) to Tori Spelling and Julianna Margulies — and shares a never-before-told story about asking the universe for Madonna and Pamela Anderson as clients, and the ice-cold lesson that redirected him. Beyond beauty, Chaz talks about the charities that have defined his adult life: 26+ years with the HollyRod Foundation supporting autism and Parkinson's research, nearly 30 years with Project Angel Food (which started with Marianne Williamson cooking meals for people with AIDS), and his deep involvement with Best Friends Animal Society. He reflects on the mentor figures who shaped him — including his minister of 25 years, the late Reverend Della Reese, and a woman named Spirit, a formerly homeless person who lived at his Hollywood salon for 12 years. The conversation also gets beautifully personal — his journey away from Botox and fillers, his natural skincare routine (and why he'll do a half-face challenge with Zach live on camera), the inspiration behind his low-heat hair dryer after watching clients destroy their hair with high-heat tools, and a brand new self-tanner born out of a first-date ultimatum. This is one of those episodes that makes you rethink what it means to build something real. Episode Notes: Chaz's early career: photography school → beauty school → walking away from Vidal Sassoon Being exploited early and using it as a stepping stone instead of a roadblock How WEN changed the haircare industry — and why people still ask "where's the shampoo?" 25 years later The never-told story about asking the universe for celebrity clients — and the lesson that redirected him 30+ year friendship with Jennie Garth His minister for 25 years: the late Reverend Della Reese Spirit — a formerly homeless woman who lived at his Hollywood salon for 12 years Why he stopped Botox and fillers in 2019 — and what his natural skincare routine looks like now Why his hair dryer maxes out at 240°F — and why that matters for your hair health A new self-tanner created from plant-based sugars with no orange, no streak, no smell HollyRod Foundation (26+ years), Project Angel Food (nearly 30 years), Best Friends Animal Society His skincare product recommendations: dry oil, facial cleansing treatment, night cream, body bomb, revitalizing mist The half-face challenge: use your current products on one side, Chaz's on the other for 30 days Links: Chaz Dean website: https://chazdean.com/ WEN Pets Ultra Plush Faux Fur Bed: https://chazdean.com/collections/wen-pets Subscribe to Everything & Anything…and a Bit Gay: [add link]Follow Zach: @TheRealZachRE on Instagram Podcast song by SIXFOOT 5: https://www.sixfoot5prod.com Apple: https://music.apple.com/us/artist/sixfoot-5/1551774977 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/artist/5rHMzoU0G0fLhaBsrQiOOY?si=laSZ5hiKTYubJJyhrzf2JQ Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
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