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by Candi Morris
Estranged & Rearranged is a podcast for estranged parents and grandparents who are trying to survive the heartbreak of being cut off, make sense of what happened, and figure out how to keep living when the family they loved has been turned upside down.
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- 2 weeks ago29 min
New to Family Estrangement? Start With These Conversations
Find an episode:https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLWqJy3KEySePJaBd_zWYnvq8y2Z0dqvE8&si=hluXxduTPDmeRBTJIf you’re living through estrangement from an adult child, you probably don’t need another person telling you there’s one simple answer. You need the right conversation for where you are right now.In this episode of Estranged & Rearranged, Candi looks back at 19 conversations from the podcast and the different pieces of family estrangement they explore. From begging an adult child to respond, living with uncertainty, and losing contact with grandchildren to therapy language, no contact, narcissistic manipulation, social media, letting go, and rebuilding a life that doesn’t depend on reconciliation, there’s a lot here.Candi revisits conversations with guests including Roberta Wasserman, Christy, Lenora Scurry, Vera Knight, Peter Anderson, Katt Johnston, and Tracy Malone, along with some of the most important lessons from her solo episodes.You don’t need to binge all 19. Find the conversation that speaks to what you’re dealing with today.And remember: your child may have left, but your life didn’t.#FamilyEstrangement #EstrangedParents #AdultChildEstrangement #GrandparentEstrangement #NoContact #EstrangedAndRearranged🔗 Connect & Explore🛍️ Website & Resourceshttps://www.estrangedandrearranged.com/resources📘 Facebook Pagehttps://www.facebook.com/share/1CuD1nHeS8/👥 Join the Facebook Grouphttps://www.facebook.com/share/g/1SU79VBP4o/🎵 TikTokhttps://www.tiktok.com/@estranged.and.rea?_r=1&_t=ZT-95tKbPyH3mA
- 3 weeks ago27 min
Your Adult Child Still Sees the Old You. But You Don’t Have to Stay There
What happens when you’ve admitted your mistakes, apologized, changed your behavior, and your adult child still sees you only as the parent you used to be?In this episode of Estranged & Rearranged, Candi talks about what she calls “the frozen house”, the painful place where an estranged parent can become permanently defined by the worst years, worst decisions, and worst moments of their past.Candi shares honestly about her own relationship with her estranged son, the mistakes she made as a mother, the things she wishes she could go back and change, and the realization that changed everything: you cannot spend the rest of your life waiting for someone else to decide whether you’re allowed to become a different person.This episode explores accountability without lifelong shame, why constantly trying to prove you’ve changed can keep you trapped, how no-contact can affect the way families learn to handle conflict, and why the people who are still in your life deserve your presence too.You can own what you did without making it the only truth about who you are.And you can leave the light on for reconciliation without spending the rest of your life sitting underneath it.🔗 Connect & Explore🛍️ Website & Resourceshttps://www.estrangedandrearranged.com/resources📘 Facebook Pagehttps://www.facebook.com/share/1CuD1nHeS8/👥 Join the Facebook Grouphttps://www.facebook.com/share/g/1SU79VBP4o/🎵 TikTokhttps://www.tiktok.com/@estranged.and.rea?_r=1&_t=ZT-95tKbPyH3mA
- Aug 19, 202642 min
When Your Estranged Child Controls the Family Story | Should You Defend Yourself?
What happens when your adult child goes no contact, but continues telling their version of the family story?For many estranged parents, losing the relationship is only the beginning. Suddenly relatives, friends, grandchildren, and even strangers online may be hearing a version of events that you believe is exaggerated, incomplete, twisted, or simply untrue.And you're left with an impossible question:Do you defend yourself or stay silent?In this episode of Estranged & Rearranged, Candi Morris gets deeply personal about reputation, smear campaigns, family narratives, social media, and the painful reality of being cast as the villain in a story you may not even be allowed to respond to.Candi explores:• What happens when one person controls the family narrative• Why no contact can leave estranged parents unable to tell their side• How labels like "toxic," "narcissistic," and "abusive" can reshape how an entire family views someone• What grandchildren may be told about an estranged grandparent• When defending yourself can actually make the situation worse• How social media can amplify accusations and outrage• The difference between accountability and accepting accusations you believe are false• When serious claims may require documentation or professional help• How to stop living as though your character is constantly on trialCandi also opens up about something happening in her own life: people publicly discussing her past and making claims about her character.She shares the struggle between wanting to defend herself and recognizing that answering every accusation can give the people attacking you even more control over your time, attention, and peace.You can own what you truly did wrong without accepting responsibility for things you did not do.Someone else may control the story they tell about you.They do not get to decide who you become.If you're an estranged parent or grandparent struggling with judgment, rumors, accusations, or feeling like nobody wants to hear your side, this episode is for you.❤️ Like, subscribe, comment, and share this episode with another estranged parent who needs to hear it.🔗 Connect & Explore🛍️ Website & Resourceshttps://www.estrangedandrearranged.com/resources📘 Facebook Pagehttps://www.facebook.com/share/1CuD1nHeS8/👥 Join the Facebook Grouphttps://www.facebook.com/share/g/1SU79VBP4o/🎵 TikTokhttps://www.tiktok.com/@estranged.and.rea?_r=1&_t=ZT-95tKbPyH3mA
- Aug 12, 202646 min
You Lost Your Child... Don't Lose Yourself Too | Healing After Estrangement
🛍️ Family estrangement can feel like the end of your story. But what if it became the beginning of a completely different one?In this heartfelt episode of Estranged & Rearranged, Candi Morris welcomes author, speaker, and support group moderator Vera to discuss the powerful journey behind her book The Woman Who Left Herself Behind.After facing cancer, leaving a 25-year career, and experiencing family estrangement, Vera found herself asking a question many parents eventually face:"Who am I outside of everyone else's expectations?"Together, Candi and Vera explore:• Why estrangement often reveals wounds that existed long before the relationship broke down• The concept of self-estrangement and how many parents unknowingly lose themselves while caring for everyone else• How to regulate your nervous system during overwhelming grief• Why hope and healing can exist together• The difference between changing your child and changing yourself• How reconnecting with yourself may be the most important part of healingThis conversation isn't about giving up on your child.It's about learning not to give up on yourself.Whether you're newly estranged or have been carrying this grief for years, this episode offers encouragement, compassion, and a fresh perspective on what healing can truly look like.❤️ If this episode encouraged you, please like, subscribe, and share it with someone who needs hope today.🔗 Connect & Explore🛍️ Vera's Book: https://amzn.to/3UcX4EZ🛍️ Website & Resourceshttps://www.estrangedandrearranged.com/resources📘 Facebook Pagehttps://www.facebook.com/share/1CuD1nHeS8/👥 Join the Facebook Grouphttps://www.facebook.com/share/g/1SU79VBP4o/🎵 TikTokhttps://www.tiktok.com/@estranged.and.rea?_r=1&_t=ZT-95tKbPyH3mA
- Aug 5, 202634 min
The Estrangement Machine: How Social Media & Therapy Are Changing Families
Is family estrangement becoming a social media trend?In this episode, Candi Morris explores what she calls "The Estrangement Machine" and how social media, online communities, therapy culture, and algorithms may be influencing family relationships in ways many people never stop to question.This is not an attack on therapy or mental health professionals. Instead, it's a conversation about influence, accountability, confirmation bias, and whether permanent family cutoffs are sometimes encouraged before every option has been explored.Candi discusses:How social media algorithms reinforce family narrativesThe growing use of terms like narcissist, gaslighting, and toxicWhy context matters more than viral adviceThe Wall Street Journal article questioning therapy's role in family estrangementThe importance of accountability for both parents and adult childrenWhy permanent no-contact decisions deserve careful considerationIf you've experienced family estrangement, this episode encourages thoughtful reflection rather than quick conclusions.🔗 Connect & Explore🛍️ Website & Resourceshttps://www.estrangedandrearranged.com/resources📘 Facebook Pagehttps://www.facebook.com/share/1CuD1nHeS8/👥 Join the Facebook Grouphttps://www.facebook.com/share/g/1SU79VBP4o/🎵 TikTokhttps://www.tiktok.com/@estranged.and.rea?_r=1&_t=ZT-95tKbPyH3mA
- Jul 29, 202642 min
How Narcissists Destroy Families | Tracy Malone on Estrangement by Lies
Can a narcissistic partner slowly turn your child against you?In this powerful episode of Estranged & Rearranged, Candi Morris sits down with Tracy Malone, coach, educator, bestselling author, and one of YouTube's leading voices on narcissistic abuse and coercive control.Together they explore how manipulative partners can isolate adult children, create division within families, and contribute to family estrangement. Tracy explains the difference between healthy boundaries and coercive control, why labels matter less than behavior patterns, and the warning signs every parent should recognize.Whether you're an estranged parent, grandparent, therapist, or simply trying to understand narcissistic abuse, this conversation provides practical insight and hope.• What narcissism really is (and isn't)• Grandiose vs. covert narcissists• Why behavior patterns matter more than labels• How coercive control destroys family relationships• The public mask narcissists wear and why so many people miss the warning signs• Why loving families suddenly become divided• The role of manipulation in family estrangement• What parents can do when they recognize these patterns🌐 Websitehttps://narcissistabusesupport.com/📺 YouTubehttps://www.youtube.com/c/TracyAMalone🎙️ Apple Podcasthttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/podcast-narcissist-abuse-support/id1244854330?mt=2👥 Facebook Support Grouphttps://www.facebook.com/groups/188681268196044/📥 Free Estrangement Resourceshttps://narcissistabusesupport.com/estrangement-resources/📚 Tracy's Bookshttps://amzn.to/4wARUBe🤝 ESMH Coalitionhttps://www.esmhcoalition.org/🌐 Website & Resourceshttps://www.estrangedandrearranged.com/resources📘 Facebook Pagehttps://www.facebook.com/share/1CuD1nHeS8/👥 Join the Facebook Support Grouphttps://www.facebook.com/share/g/1SU79VBP4o/🎵 TikTokhttps://www.tiktok.com/@estranged.and.rea?_r=1&_t=ZT-95tKbPyH3mA💬 Help spread the messageIf this conversation encouraged you, please like, subscribe, leave a comment, and share it with someone who may need it. Every share helps another family realize they are not alone.In this episode:🔗 Resources Mentioned👤 Tracy Malone🔗 Connect & Support
- Jul 22, 202620 min
Is No Contact Becoming a Shortcut? | The Truth About Conflict, Boundaries & Family Estrangement
Is going no contact always the healthiest choice, or are we losing the ability to work through difficult relationships?In this episode of Estranged & Rearranged, Candi Morris examines a growing cultural trend: more people, especially younger generations, are cutting off friends and family than ever before. Drawing from recent research and her own experience working with estranged families, Candi explores the difference between protecting yourself from genuine harm and avoiding uncomfortable conversations.This episode discusses boundaries, conflict resolution, loneliness, and why learning healthy communication skills may be more important than ever. Whether you're an estranged parent, an adult child, or someone navigating difficult family relationships, this conversation offers perspective, encouragement, and hope.📖 When They Walk Away by Candi Morrishttps://estrangedandrearranged.com📖 Rules of Estrangement by Joshua Colemanhttps://amzn.to/4vWkFb8📖 When Parents Hurt by Joshua Colemanhttps://amzn.to/4fpU7sN🤝 ESMH Coalitionhttps://www.esmhcoalition.org/📘 Vice article referenced in this episode (about the rise of no contact among Gen Z and Millennials)📊 Talkspace Survey (commissioned research discussed in the episode)🌐 Website: https://estrangedandrearranged.com📘 Join the Facebook Support Group (linked on the website)📱 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@estranged.and.reaIf this episode encouraged you, please Like, Subscribe, and Share it with someone who may need to hear this conversation.Resources MentionedConnect & Support
- Jul 15, 202652 min
Your Child Left... Your Life Didn't | A Message Every Estranged Parent Needs
What do you do when you've apologized, waited, prayed, written the letters... and nothing changes?In this deeply personal episode of Estranged & Rearranged, Candi Morris speaks directly to estranged parents and grandparents who feel trapped in the waiting. If you've spent years hoping for reconciliation while putting your own life on hold, this conversation is for you.Candi shares lessons from her own estrangement journey, practical strategies for breaking free from obsessive waiting, and encouragement to rebuild a meaningful life, whether reconciliation comes or not.This episode isn't about giving up on your child. It's about refusing to give up on yourself.• Why hope should never become a prison• The difference between accountability and lifelong guilt• How to stop replaying the past over and over• Breaking the cycle of checking social media and waiting for messages• Creating healthy boundaries around contact• Why your identity is bigger than your estrangement• A practical 7-day reset to help you move forward• Finding purpose while leaving the door open for reconciliation• Why your child's silence does not determine your worthIf you're an estranged parent or grandparent wondering how to keep living while carrying this pain, this episode offers practical encouragement, honest reflection, and hope for the road ahead.In this episode:
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Estranged & Rearranged is a podcast for estranged parents and grandparents who are trying to survive the heartbreak of being cut off, make sense of what happened, and figure out how to keep living when the family they loved has been turned upside down.
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