Grief, Horses & the Sacred Present: Love, Loss and Resilience with Karla Brahms | Equine Assisted World 49

In this deeply personal and wide‑ranging episode of Equine Assisted World, Rupert Isaacson speaks with longtime colleague and friend Karla Brahms of Wellenreiter in the Odenwald, Germany — a region steeped in myth, forest, and living horse culture.What begins as a conversation about equine‑assisted practice unfolds into an intimate exploration of grief, love, resilience, and the sacred role horses play in helping humans navigate life’s darkest passages.Karla shares her evolution from decades of forest‑based therapeutic riding with children into her current work integrating NIG (Neuro‑Imaginative Gestalt) constellation methods with horses. Through spontaneous drawing, embodied awareness, and equine presence, she helps clients access inner wisdom beyond intellectual processing.The conversation then turns to the death of her husband, musician Jan, and the profound grief that followed. Karla speaks openly about ritual, laying out the body at home, identity loss, and how horses — through presence, warmth, and simple being — helped her remain anchored in the present.This episode explores what modern culture has lost around death and ceremony — and how horses may help us reclaim a more honest, embodied relationship with grief.If you want to support the show, you can do so at Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/LongRideHome🔍 What You’ll Learn in This EpisodeHow Karla integrates forest‑based horsemanship with therapeutic workWhat NIG (Neuro‑Imaginative Gestalt) is and how drawing with the non‑dominant hand accesses embodied insightHow horses interact during constellation processes and reflect emotional statesWhy standing on symbolic drawings creates somatic awareness and shifts perspectiveThe role of the “meta position” and third‑person dialogue in therapeutic workHow horses respond to grief, exhaustion, and emotional truth in clientsWhy allowing horses to say “no” builds deeper reliability and trustHow herd stability, lifestyle, and environment influence therapeutic safetyWhat grief does to identity — and why losing a partner means losing the “we” as wellWhy ritual, washing and laying out the body, and conscious farewell matterHow animals help regulate grief through presence and daily responsibilityWhy grief is not only about death, but also about identity shifts, diagnosis, relocation, and life transitionsHow creative acts (like knitting, drawing, or movement) can become grief ritualsWhy asking “why” is less helpful than learning to trust the unfolding🎤 Memorable Moments from the Episode[00:00:44] Introducing Karla Brahms and the magical forest setting of the Odenwald[00:05:20] “Follow the child” — why forest‑based work restores nervous systems[00:09:58] Discovering constellation work and integrating horses into NIG practice[00:18:50] A yawning horse reveals hidden exhaustion in a client[00:27:39] “They’re not only carrying our bodies — they’re carrying our souls.”[00:43:00] The importance of solid horsemanship behind therapeutic freedom[00:53:38] When horses leave the herd — and how grief changes equine behavior[01:11:00] Jan’s passing and the sacred act of laying out the body at home[01:16:40] Losing the “we” — identity shifts in widowhood[01:27:00] The taboo of grief in modern culture[01:55:25] Knitting as ritual — creating a seven‑meter “snail shell” through grief[02:04:25] Letting go of “why” and choosing trust instead[02:10:23] Celebrating love and life through the annual forest reggae gathering📚 Contact, Projects, and Resources MentionedKarla Brahms – Wellenreiter (Odenwald, Germany) Search: Karla Brahms Wellenreiter https://wellenreiter.deNew Trails Learning Systems – Horse Boy Method, Movement Method & Takhin Equine Integration https://ntls.coRupert Isaacson / Long Ride Home https://rupertisaacson.comPatreon Support https://www.patreon.com/LongRideHome🌍 Follow UsLong Ride Home https://longridehome.com https://facebook.com/longridehome.lrh https://instagram.com/longridehome_lrh https://youtube.com/@longridehomeNew Trails Learning Systems https://ntls.co https://facebook.com/horseboyworld https://instagram.com/horseboyworld https://youtube.com/newtrailslearningsystems📊 Affiliate DisclosureLinks to books and products may include affiliate tracking. We may earn a commission if you make a purchase, at no extra cost to you. Thank you for supporting the show.