Dom Sub Devotion

You Can't Submit and Stay in Charge at the Same Time

April 6, 2026·39 min
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Episode 127: You Can't Submit and Stay in Charge at the Same Time   Download the free guided meditation mentioned in this episode: https://www.infinitedevotion.com/offers/aZEToAu5   Links Mentioned in This Episode:  Lovense toys (affiliate): https://www.lovense.com/r/c5fglq Submissive Foundations: https://infinitedevotion.com/submissive-foundations One of the most common questions Andrew hears from women: how do I feel submissive when my life requires me to be in control?   This episode is the honest answer. Submission and control are opposites. You cannot grip everything tightly and also experience the freedom that comes with letting go. The more useful question is why you need to be in control of everything in the first place, and whether you actually have the capacity to trust and surrender.   A good man will not force you to step back. If you won't let go when someone is willing to lead, he will eventually stop trying. Your submission is yours to offer, and that means you are an active participant in making it possible.   Download the free guided meditation mentioned in this episode: https://www.infinitedevotion.com/offers/aZEToAu5   Links Mentioned in This Episode:  Lovense toys (affiliate): https://www.lovense.com/r/c5fglq Submissive Foundations: https://infinitedevotion.com/submissive-foundations     Other Links and resources:  Listen to the Dom Sub Devotion podcast: Apple | Spotify | YouTube Explore our courses and offerings: infinitedevotion.com/store Follow us on Instagram: instagram.com/_infinitedevotion Get all of our free resources here: https://infinitedevotion.com/free-resources

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