Do You Feel That? | A Couples Intimacy & Sex Podcast

The Couples Dare Game — 10 Dares to Do This Week

August 4, 2026·43 min
Episode Description from the Publisher

This week we're giving you homework. The good kind.In Episode 41, Scott and Brittney introduce the Couples Dare Game — ten dares designed to be completed over the course of one week, escalating from easy and playful all the way to genuinely bold. One dare per day. Both partners playing. No skipping.From an unprompted appreciation ambush and a no-phone evening, to a question you've never asked, a handwritten note, an explicit midday text, an extended no-agenda touch session, a genuine fantasy share, an intentional intimate encounter, a bucket list item and a debrief that ties the whole week together.These aren't theoretical. Scott and Brittney want you to actually do them and they tell you exactly why each one matters, what to expect, and how to follow through even when it feels slightly uncomfortable.The couples who do this dare game won't just have a good week. They'll have a reference point — a week that showed them what their relationship looks and feels like when they're both fully showing up.In this episode:The rules — why pacing matters and why skipping is against themDare #1: The Appreciation Ambush — specific, unprompted, out of nowhereDare #2: The No-Phone Evening — what fills the space when screens disappearDare #3: The Question You've Never Asked — Gottman's love maps in practiceDare #4: The Handwritten Note — why paper lands differently than a textDare #5: The Midday Text — anticipation as an intimacy toolDare #6: The Extended Touch Session — twenty minutes, no agenda, both waysDare #7: The Fantasy Share — the most vulnerable dare on the listDare #8: The Intentional Encounter — preparation as its own form of intimacyDare #9: The Bucket List Item — turning inspiration into actionDare #10: The State of the Dare — the debrief that makes it all stickRemember — intimacy is not automatic... it's guided.Couples Intimacy ResourcesLooking to improve your sex life, strengthen your marriage, or deepen intimacy in your relationship?Download Coelle, our guided audio intimacy app for couples, designed to strengthen communication, build confidence, and support emotional and physical connection.For personalized support, Scott offers Sex & Intimacy Coaching focused on marriage, desire differences, and building stronger sexual confidence.Explore both here:Download the App: https://www.coelle.app/downloadBook a Free Discovery Call: https://www.coelle.app/sex-intimacy-coaching

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