(ENG) Why don’t I initiate sex (and what does it mean)?

(ENG): Why don’t I initiate sex (and what does it mean)? (A collab with Evie Plumb from Cliterally The Best)AD // BEDUCATED: Sometimes change starts with a really good question. If you want to find out where you are on your sexual journey and what actually feels good for you, click the link and take the Beducated quiz. At the end, you’ll get a personalized roadmap towards more pleasure and a more fulfilling sex life. Available in English and German.LINK: https://beducate.me/pd2615-ppmhYou love your partner. You enjoy sex. Yet somehow you’re almost never the one initiating it.If that sounds familiar, you’re not alone.📖 Read the full article here: https://cliterallythebest.com/why-dont-i-initiate-sex-and-what-does-it-meanIn this episode, we unpack why initiating sex can feel surprisingly difficult; even in happy, loving relationships. From fear of rejection and shame, to responsive desire, stress, and relationship dynamics, this conversation explores what’s really going on beneath the surface.This episode will help you understand:- why initiation isn’t just about desire- how different types of desire affect who makes the first move- the role of stress, mental load, and emotional dynamics- how to shift the pattern without pressure or blameMost importantly, it will remind you of one thing:you are not broken.Prefer the transcript? Find it here.I'm your host, Lisa Opel and I'm here to take you on a liberating ride through the world of sex shops, clubs, toys, play and more!Feel free to send me your questions and wishes anytime on Instagram or under yes@pleasepinchmehard.comMore of me on Instagram (@pleasepinchmehard) and my webpage (www.pleasepinchmehard.com)My book SEX SEX SEX - Your Workbook for Singles & CouplesMy book GIVE IT TO ME! on Amazon (E-Book & Print) and Spotify as an AudiobookMy book SAVED IN NOTES... on Amazon (E-Book, Softback & Hardback)Need a one-on-one session with a Confidante? I've got you: www.mrs-opel.com Get full access to Mrs Lisa O | pleasepinchmehard at lisaopel.substack.com/subscribe