What No One Tells You About Love...

If you’ve spent years trying to figure out how to find love, there’s a good chance you’ve also consumed a LOT of dating advice.Which dating app should you use?Should you message first?How do you get past the talking stage?How do you get a man to actually ask you out?Should you be more in your feminine energy, less anxiously attached, play it cool, stop trying so hard?How do you "put yourself out there" more than you are already??And yet despite doing all the “right” things, finding the relationship you want still feels ridiculously hard.In this episode of Find Love With Emily, you'll see exactly why typical dating advice is isn't what you want to be listening to AT ALL, if you genuinely want real, lasting love.It's actually what's been keeping you single.The recent experience of one of the women inside Attract YOUR Man illustrates this perfectly...Five weeks ago, she was utterly disheartened by dating, struggling to get past the talking stage and on a real date and it felt like it was just problem after problem she needed to somehow solve on her own.Now...She's talking to 5 men, has 2 dates planned and in her own words dating is "SO MUCH FUN!!"This wasn't because her luck changed, she found some new manipulative dating strategy, or rewrote her dating profile for the 75th time.Something much more fundamental changed and dating got easier.If you’re tired of dating advice, dating apps, situationships and constantly wondering what you’re doing wrong, hit play and listen to this episode now.You'll see:Why more of the usual dating advice isn't the answerWhat happens when you stop trying to “get dating right”Why finding love and being good at dating are not the same thingHow to take the pressure out of datingWhat makes dating (legit) fun!What to focus on when what you actually want isn’t to be good at dating, it's love.🎧 Episodes to listen to next:Love Is Simpler Than You Think - Here's What's Been MissingSelf-Assessment: Your Blocks To Love | PART 1Self-Assessment: Your Blocks To Love | PART 2The Uncomfortable Truth About Following The One Rule Love Does 👩‍❤️‍👨 Get the trusted steps, tools, reminders and support that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love:ATTRACT YOUR MANJoin Attract YOUR Man here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/attract-your-manYou'll also find me on Instagram @findlovewithemily