Find Love With Emily

The Balance Between Chasing Love And Not Doing Enough

September 1, 2026·22 min
Episode Description from the Publisher

Are you trying too hard to find love… or are you actually not doing enough?Both can leave you in exactly the same place...Still single, still exhausted and frustrated by dating, unsure why you never get any closer to love and having absolutely no idea what you're meant to do differently. Are you supposed to "put yourself" out there more, meet more men, get on more dates?!Or is love simply going to happen when it's meant to?!?In this episode of Find Love With Emily I answer these questions and explain the fine line between chasing love and actually taking the steps that move you towards the meeting the man and having the relationship you want.And you'll know the questions to ask yourself so you can get this balance right. Because sometimes the thing that feels like "trusting love" is actually the thing keeping you stuck...And something "putting yourself out there" is doing the exact same thing. If you’ve been dating for years, you’re exhausted by dating advice, and you genuinely don’t know whether you need to do more or do less to find love, hit play and listen to this episode now.👩‍❤️‍👨 Get the trusted steps, tools, reminders and support that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love:ATTRACT YOUR MANJoin Attract YOUR Man here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/attract-your-manYou'll also find me on Instagram @findlovewithemily

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