Marriage: The Creation of Us

Dr. Greg and Erin Smalley interview Pastor Kevin A. Thompson about his book The Creation of Us. Kevin emphasizes that marriage is its own entity where both spouses maintain individuality while building shared rhythms, mission, and unity. We talk about good dependence versus independence or enmeshment, how marriage reveals and can help heal attachment wounds, and “marital attention deficit.” We'll outline the phases of marriage and we answer a listener question about weaponizing sex.The Creation of Us: How To Build A Great Marriage Without Losing YourselfMarriage Assessment ToolReactive Cycle ToolLove Styles: Why You Love The Way You Do (And How to Change It)Ask Us Your Question via Voicemail or EmailSpeak With A CounselorMarriage Health In America StudyCheck Out Hope Restored.