Connected Families Podcast

When Obedience Isn’t The Whole Answer for the Christian Parent

September 14, 2026·42 min
Episode Description from the Publisher

What happens when the parenting approach you were told God requires doesn’t match the child God gave you?  It’s a question a lot of Christian parents inwardly carry, and it’s named out loud in this episode.  Host Stacy Bellward sits down with Certified Parent Coaches Katie Johnson and Lyssa Stoyko to walk through the Connected Families Framework™ layer by layer. You’ll hear one family’s story of real change, plus two role-play scenarios that show what a different response sounds like in an ordinary moment at home.  Stay to the end. This episode closes with a tribute to Jim and Lynne Jackson as they step into their new roles as Founders Emeritus. Key Takeaways: Why obedience-first parenting leaves some families stuck, and where to go from there What’s happening underneath your child’s anger, and how to respond to it What the same hard moment sounds like before and after the Framework, through two role-plays Practical tools from the Coach and Correct levels of the Connected Families Framework Mentioned in this Podcast:  Connected Families Framework Discipline That Connects With Your Child’s Heart online course cf community Upcoming Events with Lyssa Stoyko Leave a Review – Apple Podcasts or Spotify Isaiah 42:3 Philippians 1:6 Ephesians 4:22-24 2 Corinthians 10:5 James 1:27 Check out our website for more resources to support your parenting! Guest Bio: Lyssa Stoyko is a wife, foster, and adoptive mama of three children who are six, six and a half, and seven years old. Her house is active and noisy! Along with her parent coaching company, she hosts the podcast “Moms Take Ten.”  Want to keep this conversation going? Join us inside the cf community — a faith-anchored, coach-supported space where parents grow together. Reflect on episodes like this one, ask hard questions, and celebrate the small wins alongside parents from around the world. 👉 Join the cf community toda

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