
When you hear the word "masculinity," what's the first image that shows up — for better or worse? And what changes if the real answer has less to do with being a man and more to do with being good?In this episode of Complex Creatures, Rev. Dr. Jarrod Longbons steps out from behind his own show with producer Alan Barnes for a wide-ranging, unscripted conversation about masculinity — what we inherit, what we choose, and why the topic has become so hard to talk about.Together, Jarrod and Alan explore:How a holiday spent with nephews — rock climbing, ropes courses, trips to the nail salon — got Jarrod thinking about what we actually tell boys about being a good manPromise Keepers, Wild at Heart, and the cultural whiplash between "be a leader" and "be sensitive"The manosphere — from the Tate brothers to Jordan Peterson — as "a very bad answer to a very good problem"Why resentment is the engine drawing so many young men in, and how the economy and online dating feed itThe case against essentialism — why virtue (faith, hope, love, courage, prudence, temperance) belongs to everyone, expressed through each person's own temperamentJarrod's "real hot take": that what young men need most is an older man to look at them and say, I see you, and you're okayAlan's closing reflection on expressing who you are through the lens of virtue, responding instead of reacting, and learning to trust yourselfIt's not a checklist, and it's not the final word — but as Jarrod puts it, that's rather the point. We are complex creatures, and this is a conversation worth continuing.#ComplexCreaturesPodcast #Masculinity #Virtue #ChristianFormation #Discipleship #Mentorship #BoysAndMen #FaithAndCulture #SpiritualFormation #Fatherhood #ManosphereDiscourse #RootedAndRenewed #ChristianPodcast #TheologyAndLife #PeachtreeChristianChurch
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