Coffee and Cleavage

'It’s Not You, It’s Me' Is Usually a Lie

May 6, 2026·18 min
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Everyone’s heard it. Most people have said it. “It’s not you, it’s me.” But is it actually true, or just the easiest way out? In this episode, we break down what people really mean when they say it, why it’s used so often in dating, and whether it’s honesty or just avoiding the truth. If you’ve ever been on either side of it, this one hits.

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