Don't Make Me Match Your Energy

What happens when somebody switches up on you — do you protect your peace, address it, or give them exactly the same energy back?This week on CockTales with Kiki, Kiki gets into the difference between setting a boundary and just being petty, why changed energy can tell you everything you need to know, and whether “matching energy” is actually empowering… or just letting somebody else dictate how you move.Then Sip & Spill takes a turn when a caller shares a situation involving an ex resurfacing and a baby, raising some very real questions about old relationships, unexpected circumstances, and what happens when the past comes knocking with a whole new set of complications.Plus: flaky friends, knowing who really shows up for you, and why sometimes the best response to weird energy is not matching it at all.Every sip has a story — and this one comes with boundaries.SPONSORS:VB HEALTH- SOAKING WETVisit soakingwet.com and use code COCKTALES for 10% off INDACLOUDIf you’re 21 or older, get 30% OFF your first order @IndaCloud with code COCKTALES at https://inda.shop/COKTALES #indacloudpod Contact Me!Advice: advice@cocktalespod.comCockTales: cocktales@cocktalespod.comSip & Spill: You can also leave a voicemail and spill whatever you want! 404-692-0039Join Patreon to help support the show! www.patreon.com/cocktalesGet Your Merch & Order Your Card Game  www.imcurioustoknow.comBali With Kiki! The Travel Tribe Experience: https://travel.kikisaidso.com/BaliGet Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.comJoin Kiki's Book Club www.patreon.com/kikisaidsoChapters00:00 The Energy Match Cocktail Recipe01:22 Adventures at the Brown Butter Supper Club05:25 The Dishwasher Disaster Update09:59 Building Your Creative Collective12:26 Is Your Relationship Actually Boring?16:58 Real Housewives Ultimate Girls Trip Review35:27 Vaginal Health and Soaking Wet38:08 Sip and Spill: Listener Advice SessionBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-with-kiki--2818687/support.CONNECT WITH USFollow the host and join the conversation after the episode:Kiki Said So (Kiara Walker)Instagram: @kikisaidsoTikTok: @kikisaidsoCocktales With KikiInstagram:@cocktalespodcastTikTok: @cocktalespodcastWant to be a guest on Cocktales?We are always looking for interesting guests, experts, and storytellers to join the show. If you would like to be considered, please fill out our guest submission form here:Guest Interest Form