Why 90% of Families Lose Their Wealth (and How to Stop the Cycle) | Julia Myers | 209

What if the real reason family wealth disappears by the third generation has almost nothing to do with investing, and everything to do with what parents fail to teach at home? We sit down with Dr. Julia Myers, founder of Generational Wisdom, for a conversation that goes way past trusts, spreadsheets, and "someday" estate plans. Julia shares the medical crisis that abruptly ended her pharmacy career, the mindset shift that followed, and why she now believes legacy is not what you leave to your kids, but what you leave IN them. Together we unpack the three silent killers of generational wealth: no skills, no goals, no expectations, and explore what it looks like to raise kids who understand money and values, before the world teaches them. If you've ever wondered how to build wealth without accidentally raising entitlement, or how to recover from your own money story before passing it on, this episode is a gold mine. This episode covers Why 70–90% of family wealth disappears by the third generation Julia's shift from pharmacist to generational wisdom coach after a life-changing health crisis The three biggest reasons generational wealth gets lost Why "wealth without wisdom is wasted" How to build a family constitution around values, not just money  The difference between leaving wealth to your kids versus leaving legacy in them How to talk to kids about money, giving, enough, and expectations Why late starters can still change their family's financial story Practical ways to make values visible in daily family life . === SUPPORT  THE  SHOW === 📩 Sign up for our newsletter 🌐 Visit Catching Up to FI website  🔗Connect with us ☕ Like what you hear on Catching Up to FI? Support the show at "Buy Me a Coffee"  🎙️We love hearing from you! Record a Voice Message with your feedback or question Record a Voice Message with your feedback or question . ===DEALS & DISCOUNTS FROM OUR TRUSTED PARTNERS=== 📈 Boldin (formerly NewRetirement): Retirement planning software that's like having a financial advisor at your fingertips. You can get started with the free version or choose the premium option (PlannerPlus) and get a 14-day free trial.   👉🏼 Be sure to use this link to get started:  Go.boldin.com/catchingup   Personal Finance Club: Use code CUTOFI to get $30 OFF any investing course   Nectarine: Advice-Only and Flat-Fee Hourly Fiduciary Financial Advisors (Catching Up to FI will be compensated by Nectarine if you use our affiliate link, which creates an incentive and conflict of interest. We are not current clients or employees of Nectarine.)   For a full list of current deals and discounts from our partners, sponsors and affiliates, click here: catchinguptofi.com/our-partners . RESOURCES MENTIONED ON THE SHOW Charity: Hope International 🌐 JuliaMyers.com  Julia's Youtube Say This, Not That (free guide) Free Audiobook "Wealthy and Well Known"   .<