E:89: After My Divorce, God Showed Me I Was Living a Lie

Ready to stop building on an identity that can't hold? Apply for coaching → coachkatieanne.com/call   You can do everything right after your divorce — make better choices, grow in your faith, work on yourself, become genuinely different from who you were — and still find that the foundation underneath you is the same unstable ground it has always been.   That is not a healing problem. That is a root problem.   In this episode, I'm sharing a speech I gave to a room full of high-achieving women — and knew immediately that I had to bring it here. Because the woman I was speaking to in that room was you.   We go through three roots — identity, worth, and belief — and what it looks like when each one is planted in the wrong ground. Not in theory. In the specific, felt experience of a woman who is capable, driven, and still somehow feels like she is chasing a version of herself she cannot quite catch.   If you are tired of rebuilding and still not arriving — this is the episode that names why. And what changes when you finally plant yourself in the right ground.   Scripture anchor : Matthew 13 · Matthew 16:15 · Romans 8:31 · Psalm 139 Apply for coaching: coachkatieanne.com/call   If this helped you, subscribe and leave a review. It helps more women find this work. Chapter Markers 0:00 — The problem was never what you were building 0:38 — Welcome 1:15 — The speech: a room full of high-achieving women who are still chasing themselves 3:00 — Who do you actually believe you are? 4:30 — Personal story: growing up shaped by divorce · the identity she inherited 7:00 — Matthew 16:15 — identity must be spoken, declared, settled 8:30 — Matthew 13 — the Parable of the Sower · the ground determines everything 10:00 — Root One: Identity — shakeable vs. unshakeable 11:30 — Root Two: Worth — a wound driving a calendar 13:00 — Root Three: Belief — don't look at your prayers, look at your behavior 14:30 — Romans 8:31 · Psalm 139 — He spoke first 15:30 — That version of yourself was never ahead of you · Apply for coaching   identity after divorce | living a lie after divorce | Christian podcast divorced women | wrong foundation after divorce | Matthew 13 parable of the sower | identity worth belief roots | healing after divorce | divorced Christian women | faith after divorce | beyond believing podcast | Christian life coach | who am I after divorce | identity in Christ divorced woman | post divorce healing Christian | false identity Christian | coach Katie Anne | Romans 8:31 | Psalm 139 identity | Matthew 16:15 | building your life on faith   #DivorceHealing #IdentityAfterDivorce #ChristianWomen #BeyondBelieving #LivingALie #FaithAfterDivorce #HealingAfterDivorce #ChristianPodcast #DivorceRecovery #Matthew13 #IdentityInChrist #PostDivorce #DivorcedChristianWomen #CoachKatieAnne #Romans831