Men Giving Up On Dating: Why It Backfires [Ep 135]

Men Giving Up on Dating: Why It BackfiresMen giving up on dating is everywhere right now, from red pill spaces to dating apps to chronically online fights about men and women. John and Echo get into why some men are checking out, why online dating makes everyone feel worse, and why blaming women will not get men the relationship they actually want.This episode breaks down dating apps, looksmaxing, the “man vs bear” conversation, women raising their standards, men losing confidence, and why real-life experience matters more than internet doom spirals. John brings the direct reality check for men who say they have tried everything, while Echo explains what women are actually looking for when they want safety, confidence, and a man who respects himself.In This EpisodeWhy more men are opting out of dating and relationshipsHow dating apps and social media distort attraction and standardsWhy “looksmaxing” can make men seem less attractive, not moreThe difference between real-life dating and online dating narrativesWhy blaming women keeps men stuck in a victim mindsetHow confidence, effort, and self-respect change the dating gameWhy good men may have more opportunity than ever right nowWhat women mean when they want a man who feels safe and solidTimestamps0:00 — Men Opting Out Of Dating3:00 — Red Pill Culture Goes Mainstream6:21 — The Man Versus Bear Debate10:23 — Viral Dating Content Distorts Reality15:56 — The Top 20% Solution20:37 — Why Looksmaxing Can Backfire23:01 — Take Dating Offline27:21 — Have You Actually Tried?30:48 — Set Realistic Expectations33:19 — Why Women Need To Feel Safe36:24 — The Opportunity For Good Men43:52 — Trusting Your IntuitionConnect🎙 Full show notes & resources📺 YouTube📷 Instagram: @betterthanperfectpodcast📧 Subscribe for weekly relationship adviceAbout the ShowBetter Than Perfect is a relationship podcast that helps you navigate modern dating, marriage, and everything in between — with real talk and practical advice that actually works. New episodes every Friday.