The Stories Caregivers Carry: Narrative Medicine with Vive Griffith

In this episode of Before You Go, host Natalie Buster sits down with poet, essayist, and narrative medicine facilitator Vive Griffith to explore the often-overlooked emotional landscape of caregiving. Drawing from her own experience caring for her mother through terminal illness, Vive shares how storytelling, poetry, and reflection can help caregivers reconnect with themselves, find community, and feel seen.Through the lens of narrative medicine, Vive offers a powerful reframe: that caregiving is not just a task, but a deeply human act worthy of attention, artistry, and healing. Whether you're a caregiver now, have been one, or will be one someday, this conversation is a balm.Topics Covered:The four kinds of people in the world, according to Rosalynn CarterWhat is narrative medicine, and how does it support caregivers?Vive’s personal caregiving journey with her motherHow art, poetry, and storytelling create space for healingThe emotional toll of caregiving—and how to replenishBuilding community through shared reflection and writingResources Mentioned:Narrative Medicine Program at Columbia UniversityThe Lacemaker by Johannes Vermeer (used in a workshop)Vive’s workshops for caregivers and cliniciansIf you’re a caregiver—or know someone who is—consider exploring narrative medicine circles or expressive arts workshops. You are not alone, and your story matters.⏱️ Episode Timestamps00:00 – Opening Quote Rosalynn Carter’s powerful words on caregiving01:00 – The Invisible Weight of Caregiving Natalie reflects on the emotional and physical toll caregivers carry02:00 – Meet Vive Griffith Poet, essayist, and narrative medicine facilitator04:00 – What Is Narrative Medicine? Vive explains the field and its roots at Columbia University07:00 – The Practice in Action How narrative medicine workshops use art, writing, and reflection10:00 – Vive’s Caregiving Story Walking with her mother through cancer and end-of-life care13:00 – The Power of Being Heard Why sharing stories in community is essential for healing16:00 – The Lacemaker Workshop Using a Vermeer painting to unlock caregiver reflections19:00 – Universal Threads of Care How narrative medicine connects us to something bigger