Episode 298: 'Gloryhole Virgin' (Jeffrey Allen Hayes)

In this episode, we dive into the hilarious and awkward world of Gloryhole etiquette with professional Game Master Jeffrey Allen Hayes. New to the world of anonymous sex, Jeffrey finds himself perplexed by an invite on the Scruff app. As he navigates the uncharted territory of Gloryholes, he wonders: Do you RSVP? Should you bring baked goods? And what exactly are the rules for touching? Join us as we explore the do's and don'ts of this mysterious and unconventional experience as Jeffrey teaches us how to connect, despite barriers (Really, there's a barrier there between them).   Song: 'Accept My Shaft' (Ninja Sex Party)   About the Storyteller:   Jeffrey Allen Hayes has won Best of Bawdy multiple times. He holds an MA in Drama Therapy and works as a professional game master, facilitating games like Dungeons and Dragons with a focus on emotional growth and healing. Jeffrey is a beloved core member of the Bawdy family, and his stories are among our most requested.   Anonymous Sex l Gay l Gloryhole l Scruff l App l Vulcan Death Grip l Romantic l Hookup l Grindr l LGBT l Twink l Proximity l Invitation l Google l The Tap l The Knock l Condom l Brownies l RSVP l Texts l Dickslap l Ecstasy l Polite l Canadian l Castro l Thrust l Extra Credit l Curtain l Hole l Sensation l Power l Fear l Touch l Come Inside l Connection l Relationship l One Night Stand l Blank Sheet l Joy l   Episode links:   Live Shows:   September 6th: CHICAGO, IL Bawdy will on the Heath MainStage at the beautiful Den Theater on Friday, Sept 6th. Tickets at https://bit.ly/BawdyChicago2024   September 10th: PHILADELPHIA, PA I'm hosting First Person Arts' SexFiles live event 7 PM EST at World Café Live https://bit.ly/FPASexFilesDixie   October 18th: PORTLAND, OR We're returning to Curious Comedy Theater for both shows: our curated mainstage Bawdy Storytelling, followed by BawdySlam (where you can get onstage to win prizes). Plus it'll be Livestreamed! https://bit.ly/BawdyPDXOct2024   November 1st: SEATTLE, WA Bawdy comes to the gorgeous Century Ballroom https://bit.ly/BawdySeattle2024     WORKSHOPS:   'How to Be Bawdy: Dixie's Secret System for Uncensored Storytelling - learn Dixie's complete 5-Step System & Learn the Craft of Sexy, beautifully told Stories from Award-winning Story Coach and Professional Storyteller Dixie De La Tour.   Have you ever listened to a story at a live performance or on a podcast, and wished that you could share your own personal stories in such a well-crafted, relatable way? It's easy, if you have a System...and Dixie De La Tour has one. She's taught thousands of new and experienced storytellers to tell their story at Bawdy Storytelling. And now YOU can learn her simple system, too. Join Dixie for her all new workshop: 'How to Be Bawdy: Dixie's Secret System for Uncensored Storytelling'. You'll engage in group & solo exercises in a sex-positive, community-based environment as you find & refine your own stories under Dixie's expert direction. Try out your own most intimate stories in a positive, supportive setting. 'How to Be Bawdy' includes special topics in sexuality, kink and gender-related storytelling, to help you articulate your stories clearly. With live sessions, weekly office hours, best practices for NSFW stories, performance tips, storytelling-related neuroscience, a custom workbook, coaching from Dixie - and a final storytelling performance for you and your friends.